TheDoctor Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 By the big show I mean sex. I have noticed that right before the first time I ever do it with any girl they always make this comment. No matter how long or short the time has been that we have dated they always say that and at the worst times to! Obviously, I know they are having their doubts and they fear getting 'played', but I don't get why they say that. Anyone else experienced that as well? Link to comment
tmp0620 Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 It's so that they can blame you if they feel bad about doing it afterward for whatever reason... "I told you so" Link to comment
Papillion Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 Its cos she wants you to still think she's a "good girl". Its just another way of saying to you "i'm going to have sex with you but please dont think i'm loose - i dont do this for just anyone you know". Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 Its cos she wants you to still think she's a "good girl". Its just another way of saying to you "i'm going to have sex with you but please dont think i'm loose - i dont do this for just anyone you know". Yeah exactly...and then women wonder why men are confused and think that "no" means "yes"....because women put on this stupid game of being coy and saying "no, we really shouldn't" while at the same time shedding her clothes and giving the guy a blowjob! I also find it interesting that whenever a woman has a one night stand, she has to tell the guy "I don't usually do this". Yeah right!...or after the hookup which they now regret it is "Well, I had too much too much to drink"...yeah right! Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 Maybe they're referring to the fact you call sex The Big Show? How old are you, and how old are the women you're dating. Tbh, the fact that you say it's every time makes me think that you're looking for women who'd have this mindset. Link to comment
xXxLancexXx Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 I call this anti- * * * * defense, or ASD. The other commenters hit it on the head, though. She doesn't want to be thought of as * * * * ty, loose, whatever. It allows her to rationalize the experience if you bail on her. Basically she can say she didn't really want it but you pressured her into having sex. The best way to combat ASD is to get her really turned on, to the point where she is begging you to have sex with her. What I do is arouse her (physically and mentally), pull back and chill, arouse again, pull back, repeat a couple of times until she's ready. If you're coming off as a very high value male (ie a prize or hard to attain), the ASD pretty much disappears. Be careful with all this, never abuse your partner, always use protection! Link to comment
Taomagicdragon Posted July 4, 2008 Share Posted July 4, 2008 Someone's been watching too much "Mystery" and his ladies-guide. Link to comment
valiantv Posted July 6, 2008 Share Posted July 6, 2008 Maybe they're referring to the fact you call sex The Big Show? Ha ha ha!!!!! Also they might want to feel like they are doing something naughty or taboo... Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 they must think they are in a soap opera. this happens every time? i find that hard to believe. Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Maybe it could be that they aren't even ready. I really don't know. It also could be that maybe they are in another relationship . Who knows? Link to comment
ApplePiePeachy Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 they might want to feel like they are doing something naughty or taboo... This would be it. Link to comment
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