lovebunny Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 I met a guy online 4 months ago. We have been trying to meet up, but due to schedules and some cyber falling outs which led to periods of no contacthe longest 2 weeks, it hasn't been able to happen. About 3 weeks ago he asked me again to meet again: Him: I might be going to (town) Mon night. Me: Is that an invitation to meet? Him: If we both have time and you don't mind me in migrant farm worker mode. Scruffy. Going to be in (town) at 7, God willing. Talking about some business for a little while, then have to hightail back to check on dog. In btwixt is a possibility depending on where you are. Me: Sounds rather harried and uncertain. I'll pass. Him: Well, we wouldn't want to stress you out. Me: I meant to harried for YOU given what you already have scheduled. But come to think of it... maybe I'll get a massage after I go rollerblading tonight. Him: Pity. My strong suit Me: Yeah... you probably have those giant soft bass-player paws, huh? Puuuuuuuuurrrrrrrrr Well.. maybe we can shoot for another time. Do you rollerblade BTW? He didn't respond for days. I finally sent him a sad puppy face (as I did once before when he wasn't responding). He replied "nice nose". I said "Thanks I've been contemplating getting mine done just like it!" Him: "I didn't know they did nose augmentations!" I sent a funny pic and made a funny comment regarding the topic. He didn't respond all day. The next day I told him about a gig I had (he always asks when I'm playing). He was friendly but didn't say whether or not he'd show and never did. No contact for 10 days. I sent him an email last Tue: Me: "I might be in (town) Fri-Sat or all day Sun. Still inclined to meet?" Him: Let me know when you'll be around. I have a gig Sat and some other stuff planned. (We're both musicians). I wrote back a few hours later "Will do. Where's your gig? I have one Sat also.... (town)." He didn't respond to my email for 3 days. Finally Sat I called him (which I only called him one other time in the 4 months) and sent email to let him know.... Me: "Mike, I am planning to go to (town) tomorrow. Not sure if you're still interested in meeting... particularly based on your lack of response to my previous email. Can you let me know either way so I can plan accordingly. Him: "Hmmm.lack of response? I seem to recall I replied and asked to let me know when, between Friday and Sunday, you'd be in (town). That being said, I have plans tomorrow afternoon and eve. Hope your gig tonight is good. I'm playing bass at the (club) in (town)!" Me: "I was referring to the email I sent Wed asking where your gig was. I will be in (town) beyond tomorrow... but sounds like the truth of the matter is you're not very interested. OK... thanks for letting me know." He hasn't responded for almost 6 days now. Was I wrong for not getting back to him sooner and maybe he was pissed off??ut I was annoyed and thought the fact he never responded to my question about where his gig was, indicated he was maybe going to blow me off anyway. Link to comment
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