sweetheart21 Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 Hi guys, I'm having trouble at my new job. I always try to be nice to everyone. I can be shy sometimes and I hate conflict or thinking that I have upset someone. I have very low self esteem & have this need for everyone to like me. I think I mostly just come accross as annoying though. Everyone at my new job seems to like me ok and different people have even said that they think i'm nice etc. But people keep walking all over me. They know they can say anything to me and i'll just laugh it off. Everyone will joke around with me and sometimes it is funny, but other times it goes too far. I just pretend it doesnt bother me and joke back. I feel like no one respects me. I don't know what to say for people to respect me. I dont want to turn into a nasty person. Is it possible to be a nice, funny person but still be respected? How on earth do people do that? Link to comment
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