spartacat Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 there, I'm in a long distance relationship which started out a bit rocky but has since improved dramatically. We met 6 months ago, had a 6 hour long conversation and each became interested immediately. He lives only 2 hours away, which logically seems so do-able. He came down once back in March for a weekend, which we spent the entirety in bed truly connecting (we didnt even have sex!). Theres just something about his personality, a really special person in my eyes. Since then, we were on and off a bit but have recently decided to give this another try as we both feel it could be something worth-while. He'll be here in a few days and we plan to really talk a lot and figure out what we're both after, hopefully together. My only problem though, I'm extremely jealous. He's only ever been in one serious relationship which lasted 3 years, been apart for about a year now, however, they're best friends! By best friends, I mean they hangout every other day. I find this odd. My friends find this odd and my family also finds this odd. I love the idea of remaining friend with an ex... but I feel like its too much. I clearly cant pick and choose his friends, will not even attempt. But now im wondering... will this eat inside at me forever? Will the jealousy go away? As is, he should be here in a few days and everytime i read a post on his wall (facebook) from the Ex, I'm about 2 seconds away from calling the weekend off (I wouldnt actually). I dont know if Im able to handle this Ex situation and I dont know if its worth testing. I can honestly say, I think I could really love this guy, which is why Im having such a hard time dealing with the Ex. Anyone have any tips? Advice? suggestions? Anything? Thanks! Link to comment
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