lovecrazy Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 My friend J is engaged, to a guy I introduced her to this past Feb. I tried from December of last year to set them up. Now they are planning a wedding, and expecting a baby. Prior to this, I tried to be a supportive friend, and help her through a toxic relationship, and a toxic breakup. Her own words, I was her only friend that didnt try and push her into anything she didnt want to do, and I didnt pass judgement on her. When my friend J first got engaged, I was joking her and said "I'm in the wedding party?" she replied, "Of course" A few days later I told her, it was ok if I wasnt I didnt want her to feel pressured to put me in the wedding party. The girl has a lot of friends that she has known a lot longer than me. But she told me no, she wanted me in her wedding party. That if it werent for me being there for her and helping her, none of this would be possible. I havent really talked to her in a few weeks, so I text her and asked if she picked out the bridesmaids dresses? She replied yes, and that she chose 3 girls that she has known the longest to be in the bridal party, I asked if I was still included. And she text back, no I wasnt, and she was so sorry. Now her fiance, is pretty good friends with my ex. I told her it wouldnt be awkward for me to in the wedding party with my ex. Because its their day. We would have to put our differences aside for their day. I have no problem with his friend at all. But honestly I am not sure if my ex would be in the groomsmen or not. I havent really talked to her about stuff. anyways it kinda hurts.... Do I have a right to be upset? Link to comment
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