stella777 Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 ok, here is the thing! my bf doesn't care about me getting orgasm that much! I always care a lot about him and his pleasure and initiate sex most of the time. so after he cums he doesn't ask me if I need some now or not( I can't cum with intercourse!).it doesn't happen everytime though, mostly happens when I initiate , because if he initiates he has to get me in the mood first. like this morning we had a long hard sex then he had to go. when he came back he caught me masturbating cuz I was so horny and he just laughed no action and then told me you need to learn how to cum with intercourse!! what the ****! is that it? don't you want to at least help me cumming now ? Don't tell me that you should talk to him about it, cause I hate forcing him to please me when he doesn't want it! I always please him so eagerly and I expect the same. What else do you think I can do? don't initiate anymore or rejecting him..? Has anyone else experienced something like this? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 next time he touches you and you don't get there and he pulls away, grab his hand and put it back down there. or push his head back down there. be a bit forceful. get you some. Link to comment
jengh Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 make him get you off before he does. Whether it be foreplay before hand (fingering, going down on you) or rubbing your clit while having sex. He sounds selfish! Link to comment
stella777 Posted July 2, 2008 Author Share Posted July 2, 2008 I want to make him get me off first, but he always wants to go right into intercourse and sometimes if I force him to make me cum first he may make a face like he doesnt like it or even nagging about the position his hand s are in(!) which is not really stimulating for me! Link to comment
jengh Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 ugh, he's just selfish, only cares about his own needs. Time for a new boyfriend? I'd have a serious talk with him.... or, next time you're going at it just stop in the middle and say you have to go. Link to comment
Lionel Hutz Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 Im so sorry Stella. Thats half the fun for me anyways. Get yours though, grab some toys or do the "shower trick" I hear works so well.LOL! Im a guy so I'd say masterbate, thats what most of us do when we get "blue balls." Or hit him over the head with a vibrator and say "Hey dude! Your fired!" Thats shady. Unless he just doesn't last Link to comment
stella777 Posted July 2, 2008 Author Share Posted July 2, 2008 If he thinks I may leave him for that he will go down on me for like hours without complaining. I know that for sure. I think maybe the problem is it is so easy to get sex with me that he think he doesnt need to worry about me that much, because I'm always there, does that make sense you think? Link to comment
george237 Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 I like getting her once, twice, or threce, and then both of us at the same time. Link to comment
stella777 Posted July 2, 2008 Author Share Posted July 2, 2008 Im so sorry Stella. Thats half the fun for me anyways. Get yours though, grab some toys or do the "shower trick" I hear works so well.LOL! Im a guy so I'd say masterbate, thats what most of us do when we get "blue balls." Or hit him over the head with a vibrator and say "Hey dude! Your fired!" Thats shady. Unless he just doesn't last LOL. I LOVEE shower trick. it is the best orgasm you can ever get. But when I masterbate I dont like him anymore after that. Why bother having a bf when you have to masterbate anyways!!?? Link to comment
george237 Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 LOL. I LOVEE shower trick. it is the best orgasm you can ever get. But when I masterbate I dont like him anymore after that. Why bother having a bf when you have to masterbate anyways!!?? You need to teach him just like he has probably taught you what he likes. After a year or so with my ex we both knew exactly what the other wanted in that department. Link to comment
george237 Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 LOL. I LOVEE shower trick. it is the best orgasm you can ever get. But when I masterbate I dont like him anymore after that. Why bother having a bf when you have to masterbate anyways!!?? Or maybe doing a little self-help when you two are at it. I think most guys find that hot anyway. Link to comment
jengh Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 Or maybe doing a little self-help when you two are at it. I think most guys find that hot anyway. yup. that's what i do. i can't orgasm just from sex. need a bit more. turns the bf on quite a bit! Link to comment
stella777 Posted July 2, 2008 Author Share Posted July 2, 2008 You need to teach him just like he has probably taught you what he likes. After a year or so with my ex we both knew exactly what the other wanted in that department. I think he knows what I want! once he told me you don't get what you want every time because it may spoil you! but I am stupid enough to give him what he wants or more every time!! Link to comment
KG Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 I think he knows what I want! once he told me you don't get what you want every time because it may spoil you! SPOIL? SPOIL? Insensitive jerk. Next time you are doing it, get up and get dressed, pre his cumming, and tell him the same. Betcha it won't happen again. Link to comment
Sprinter79 Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 Make it a condition of sex, that he pleasure you first. Tough love Link to comment
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