scared and alone Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 He messaged me telling me his world was crumbling, well its because he told his wife he loves her but isn't in love with her anymore. He's felt that way for years now apparently. They got married not even 2 years ago and just had a baby. Like seriously WHY do that to the girl if you are not happy with her!? I mean the baby wasn't planned, but still. wow. They JUST had a baby not even a month ago and he's springing this on her NOW?! God. I had a bad feeling he was gonna hurt her too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Up and Down Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 How long ago did you two date? Was she a rebound? Are you on good terms? He has a lot on his plate to figure out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scared and alone Posted July 2, 2008 Author Share Posted July 2, 2008 Oh we dated YEARS ago for a few months. Friends our whole lives. She wasn't a rebound. They met a few years after we broke up. He and I our on good terms, yes. And just the way he always talked im thinking 'WHY is he marrying her. she doesn't deserve this'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SapphireNoir10 Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 Poor woman, are you still good friends with him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scared and alone Posted July 3, 2008 Author Share Posted July 3, 2008 He told me he felt this way before they even got married, he thought it would get better. um WHAT?! If youre not in love with the girl, don't propose and MARRY her. So he thought he should wait til AFTER the baby was born to tell her!? way to spring it on her... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpeedingCars Posted July 3, 2008 Share Posted July 3, 2008 That's really awful... Some people are too scared to bring up things like that, in case they might regret their decision, but it's unfortunate he took so long to come out and say it. So are they filing for divorce or does he just need "space" to figure out his feelings? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scared and alone Posted July 3, 2008 Author Share Posted July 3, 2008 he says he thinks they are gonna split and see from there. DAMMIT I just KNEW this was gonna happen. This is so frustrating. I feel so bad for her. I mean they JUST had a baby like, earlier in June. And she is so in love with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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