ADA123 Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Alright I've been with my current girlfriend for a year and 4 months. About a month ago I log on to her Facebook BY MISTAKE, and found out in her messages that shes been talking to her boss from work. I read in the messages about how she is tired of how I cry over things. And he had the nerve to call me a GIRL? Ok * * * * talk isn't gonna play into this because I know I can kill the dude,but anyways. I confronted her about it and she got angry at me and started her blame game. So I told her since I cry too much I will be the arogant asswhole I was in the first place, (atleast then I didn't take anyones * * * * and their mouths were shut to my presense). Well I lost alot of my trust in her after that, then no more then 2 days later I get on her yahoo and shes sending pictures of him to her friends. Im furious and I call her and start screaming (I don't care when i'm pissed i'm pissed..) and she tells me its my fault again (again my fault HA!) so we talk for about 3 hours straight and I tell her I don't trust her anymore. She gets upset and starts crying. (Im the bad guy now I guess) So anyways we're still together. I can't trust her anymore. I've been thinking about giving her a taste of her own medicene and doing what she did to me. But the only problem is now. All I do is worry myself sick, Im depressed and Im confused. I ask myself if this is really my fault? Is this my fault? I wanna fix things but Im not sure how, and how can I reassure myself she is being truthful. And for the record. I have never defied my girlfriend in anyway. I keep my eyes on here and my thoughts and opinions about other females to myself. What could be her reasoning for doing the opoisite for me? PLEASE HELP ME! Link to comment
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