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Hi Everyone,


I am a recent member and this is my first thread. I have a friendship question.

We’ve been best friends for 10 years. Almost like sisters. Recently, out of the blue, her behavior just changed. I thought I was imagining it at first. She has been acting weird and somewhat aggressive towards me. I tried talking to her about it, but she just made up some excuse. Lately I’ve been feeling like she is looking for a reason to provoke me into a fight. I am pretty sure it was nothing I either did or said to make mad at me. Any thoughts?

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well she might be upset abt something?something she aint telling you? something that might or might not be related to you. best is try your best to escape fights and later on if she seems a bit friendly ask her.. and yeah, she might have fallen into bad terms with her guy if she has one... there are a lot of possibilities..

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maybe you should give it some space and sometime.... remember, she is yours but she has a character of her own. if she loves you she will return to you and maybe tell you what happened.... Since you have been close for long, if you never did anyting wrong then you dont need to worry...just wait for her...

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wow.. dont get worried.. u know when a person is worried about something or upset about something, you just need to allow some space. Like you shouldnt go on asking about her why she is like this now and all... the odds are that she will not be able to understand that her behavour has changed towards you now, since she is preoccupied with something else. so just dont react and dont keep asking her about what happened, she'll just get mad at you. Just be calm and ask her, when you think she's quite better. you know when she is a bit cool and is in a state when she's not very angry. try keeping evrything normal with her, as if nothing happened...


so keep it cool until her trouble settles... and while you are at it, you might want to enquire about her without her knowing, maybe with her siblings, other friends... who you think will tell you the truth. remember she should never get to know. Since she is not in a position to understand you (becoz she might be preoccupied with something else), if she finds out you tried to enquire to others and all, she might get mad again.. so careful... and dont worry, it'll be alrite in a few days...

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