tabbycat41 Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 My boyfriend says he's going camping with one guy friend for two days. should I believe him? Do two guys really go camping together alone for two days? sounds kinda like brokeback mountain Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Hahahaha = = = I don't think there is anything wrong with it. Less of course you have other reasons to think he's . .. . . Link to comment
Excalibur Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Camp, hunt, fish, pee on the tree.....etc. If you're not an outdoor girl - and he's an outdoor guy - do you know what a hassle and "unfun" experience it would be trying to take prissy you to the "great outdoors?" going with someone that likes to do what you like to do outdoors - hunt, fish, hike, explore - that's great...it's not about sex...it's not a hallmark, kodak moment. Link to comment
tabbycat41 Posted July 1, 2008 Author Share Posted July 1, 2008 But I do go camping with him. I am outdoorsy. He didn't invite me, because he knew I had to work. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 My boyfriend says he's going camping with one guy friend for two days. should I believe him? Do two guys really go camping together alone for two days? sounds kinda like brokeback mountain ha ha! That's what I was thinking! I don't really think its weird though. But more commonly you hear of a group going, not just two... Link to comment
anggrace Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 I don't think it's weird at all. Do you have other reasons to think he might swing both ways? Link to comment
tabbycat41 Posted July 1, 2008 Author Share Posted July 1, 2008 ha ha! That's what I was thinking! I don't really think its weird though. But more commonly you hear of a group going, not just two... That's what I was thinking...maybe there are other girls going on this trip that he is not telling me about? Link to comment
tabbycat41 Posted July 1, 2008 Author Share Posted July 1, 2008 I don't think it's weird at all. Do you have other reasons to think he might swing both ways? It's not that I think he's gay, I'm not worried about that at all. i'm worried about him being honest about it really being just him and his friend. Link to comment
Excalibur Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 So what has he done that makes you not trust his word? Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 You know, I bet if it was two women going camping together, nobody would bat an eyelash. It would be about two women bonding and having a weekend of fun and girltalk. So why should it be any different with two men going? Maybe they just want to chill out, fish and enjoy the great outdoors without the stress of "a relationship". Just two guys getting away from the day to day stress of life. Link to comment
george237 Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 I go on golfing, skiing, and fishing weekends now and then. Same thing except we are staying in a hotel room instead of tents. You have nothing to worry about unless you think there is a chance he is a switch hitter. Link to comment
Excalibur Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Two women camping - they'd be labels lesbians so fast thier heads would spin. Do anything athletic or outdoorsy with another girl....if you are one - and you're labeled butch. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 So what has he done that makes you not trust his word? Yeah, exactly. Why the assumption that there is more to it than a camping weekend. You said yourself that you had to work...that doesn't mean he is not allowed to have a camping weekend. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Two women camping - they'd be labels lesbians so fast thier heads would spin. Do anything athletic or outdoorsy with another girl....if you are one - and you're labeled butch. Really..then I think the people who automatically make those assumptions are pretty small-minded and have too much time on their hands! Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Offer to go with him, offer to take the day off. Link to comment
jettison Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 My boyfriend says he's going camping with one guy friend for two days. should I believe him? Do two guys really go camping together alone for two days? sounds kinda like brokeback mountain I really don't see why you're so concerned. 3 times a year doesn't make him gay. Link to comment
Lionel Hutz Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Girls have girls nights out, or "fake-ations" Guys go camping and shoot stuff. Don't let your imagination get the best of you. Who knows they might just want to pee outside, fart, spit, smoke, chew, and get super drunk and act like ten yr olds. Me and my buddies do it all of time, accept we are usually at the beach surfing for days. No girls allowed. Its just a clubhouse mentality, don't worry unless youve got good reason too. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Why wouldn't you believe him? Link to comment
Lionel Hutz Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Offer to go with him, offer to take the day off. Thats not a good Idea That becomes borderline intruding. People need space, they are entitled to it. That will make her look very insecure. Link to comment
surfjon Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Perfectly cool..... I take surf trips with my buds, often camping either in-state, or out of the country, Costa, Panama, Nica, El Salvador.. Girls don't go........evar!! So don't ask..... Guys do this stuff, get used to it...... Take some trips of your own with a G/F. Ain't no "brokeback mountain" crap goin on, but be wary when he plans his first trip to Centro-Am Those Central American girls are WAY DIFFERENT than gringas!! They're sweet, beautiful and pamper the boys..... Link to comment
jettison Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Two women camping - they'd be labels lesbians so fast thier heads would spin. Do anything athletic or outdoorsy with another girl....if you are one - and you're labeled butch. This is exactly why I won't do anything with my dad. Immediately, people think "gay incest". I'm just not going to go there. My personal fave: When two guys go to the movies together and purposely sit a chair apart so that no one thinks that they are together. Hahahahahaha. Kills me every time. Link to comment
tabbycat41 Posted July 1, 2008 Author Share Posted July 1, 2008 So what has he done that makes you not trust his word? Nothing really...I'm just suspicious by nature, I guess. It's a fear of the unknown. Link to comment
KG Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Camping with a bud is the greatest thing ever....no manners, all the crude jokes you can tell w/o getting "the look". Did 3 days every year with my best friend for 11 years. Some of the best times I remember, and some that I don't. LOL! Don't worry! Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 That's what I was thinking...maybe there are other girls going on this trip that he is not telling me about? hmmm. do you have reason not to trust him? Has he cheated or lied before? Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Nothing really...I'm just suspicious by nature, I guess. It's a fear of the unknown. oh, sorry missed this....we then if he hasn't given you a reason not to trust him, then give him the benefit of the doubt. Link to comment
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