SweetiePie05 Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 I've posted a little about my current situation on here before, but now I really feel at a lost and would really like your imput, I don't know what else to do. My boyfriend lost is dad in december 07 and his mom has lung cancer right now. So he's going through a lot. He's only 23. I want to be there for him, but I know sometimes he needs his space. But it seems every time we talk he gets mad at me. Lately he hasn't been responding to my texts or answering my phone calls, he always has an excuse for not being able to see me as well. I understand he may want to stay home cuz he doesn't want to leave his mom, so if I want to see him, I have to go to his house (30 min drive). I understand that he takes his fustrations out on me too. But it's getting to the point where I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. I don't want to leave him now cause I want to be there for him while he is going through this, but he constantly is mad at me and won't talk to me. Today he was talking about how he has to cook for himself and wash his own clothes (something his mom did for them) and I told him that's good cuz he needs to know how to do thoes things, she can't keep doing it he's 23 years old....and he totally flip out on me and hung up on me. I called him back to apologize and he hung up on me again. I just REALLY don't know what to do right now. We are starting to fall appart. When he's mad he says I'm not being there for him and I only think about myself. I'm so confused and hurt right now. Me and his mom are close and it hurts so much that that is coming to an end, I wanted her to be my mom. And when he cuts me off and doesn't talk to me....I have no clue what's going on with her. I don't know if I want to be with him anymore, he is so mean and hurtful. Link to comment
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