John Bendix Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 My question is this. What do you think when someone, who you have been talking (flirting) with online, tells you that they think that you are either shy, depressed, or still angry? Has this relationship, even the online one, a chance in hell? Or do you think that the other person was just trying to degrade you so it would be easier to seduce you? You know, make you feel cheaper and then easier? Any thoughts? Link to comment
doyathink Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Actually, I think she is probably really interested in you, but just can't figure you out. Do you explain yourself to her when she brings this up? Why do you think she says these things to you? How do you feel about her? Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 My question is this. What do you think when someone, who you have been talking (flirting) with online, tells you that they think that you are either shy, depressed, or still angry? Has this relationship, even the online one, a chance in hell? If I told someone this, I would not be interested in them anymore. If it had just been shy/depressed then maybe, but the still angry tells me that the chance is very small. Link to comment
doyathink Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Ahahahaa....ohhhhh man, someone's just been served! Link to comment
John Bendix Posted July 1, 2008 Author Share Posted July 1, 2008 agent, I guess you are right. Shy/depressed just makes me seem like a geek. I have dated women with glasses and pocket protectors before. So why couldn't she? The still angry part signifies death. That is unless she thinks that I am still angry at my X. doyathink, Why does she need to figure me out? How do I explain myself? I am just being me. Why do I think she says these things? I think she is really trying to take me down a peg so she can have her way with me without any resistance on my part. How do I feel about her? I think she is fabulous and cannot wait to be with her. Link to comment
doyathink Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 doyathink, Why does she need to figure me out? How do I explain myself? I am just being me. Why do I think she says these things? I think she is really trying to take me down a peg so she can have her way with me without any resistance on my part. How do I feel about her? I think she is fabulous and cannot wait to be with her. Why does she need to figure you out? I don't know....maybe you interest her, and she wants to get to know you better. How? ask her how...Idk. lol You may be right, but then again, maybe not. If you think she's that 'fab' then tell her that...thats the 'how' you were just asking about. ha! Link to comment
John Bendix Posted July 1, 2008 Author Share Posted July 1, 2008 doyathink, I am supposed to ask her how can I explain myself better? I not really good at all of this especially over a box with a keypad. Why cannot she just ask what she wants to know? I'll tell her. I should tell her that I think she is "fab"? She knows that already but she just wants to hear it? If I do not do these things, will that just convince her that she was right about me being shy? I really could use more women's imput on this. Link to comment
John Bendix Posted July 1, 2008 Author Share Posted July 1, 2008 I have been trying to figure out if there is a way of meeting someone's needs in a purely electronic relationship. You may know the person as well as one can when the communicating is on-line. Some of their needs may be met without you even knowing it by just talking to them. I do not know if I am meeting the needs of this person and would like to do so. Link to comment
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