ryan250 Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 A little background: Me and this girl started dating/seeing each other around 2 months ago. She broke up with her boyfriend(they dated for 3 years) 3 weeks prior to meeting me. We haven't had sex yet, but have gotten pretty intimate in other areas. Anyways, we have gone out to dinner, movies, blah blah the whole dating nine yards. She even said that when guys ask her out, she says she is dating someone. Awesome! or so I thought.... The thing is, I am always the one to contact her and ask if she wants to go eat some grub, come over or go catch a flick. So I realized this past Thursday that the last 3-4 times we've hung out, was because I initiated it. However, she was always eager and very enthusiastic to my requests to hang out, so it's not like she doesn't want too. So I thought to myself.. "okay, if she really wants to hang out this weekend, she will contact me...." I just think it's common curtsy to ask the other person if they want to hang out. Unless, ladies, do you expect the guys to make ALL the moves?? Anyways.. After a couple days of no contact on both of our parts, I decided I would text her late Saturday night because I really missed her. This is EXACTLY how the text conversation went down. Me- "Hey you, whats up??" Her- "Where did u come from?" Me- "Um... okay?" Her- "Okay?" Me- "Where did I come from? Pretty rude..." Her- "Rude? You said you would call me this weekend, never did... pretty rude" Me- "Okay, I don't remember saying that at all, and when I do contact you don't answer with a smartass comment like that, kinda hurts.. and I didn't deserve it" that was it. she never responded back to my last text, and that was Saturday night. Ladies, do you honestly expect the guys to make all the contact and arrangements for dates and to hang out? I don't even recall saying I would call her Saturday. I don't think I was to harsh in the text, she really did hurt me. To say the least, I'm pretty pissed off. I think she made it pretty clear she doesn't have any regard for my feelings. But why all of a sudden? We were getting really close, this isn't like her at all. The fact she hasn't even contacted me since or respond shows a lot. We usually talk 2-3 times a day too, so not talking to her for 3 days straight is strange. Also, this isn't about games or "pride". I honestly feel that she doesn't deserve my contact after the way she responded to me and NOT even responding back after she knew she hurt me. What do you guys think I should do? Just wait for her to contact me, or contact her? Thanks Link to comment
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