joesonlineaucs Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 We're both 19, we go to the same college and are both home for the summer in a temp LDR. @ 1.5 hours away cause of the summer break. She says, "She loves me" , and "Thinks we could very well be forever". We've been together about 2.5 months now and known and liked each other for 5 months (or since we first met, possibly fate). Even though she says this stuff.... I still always am having to text her first (or it seems like it), or setup times for her to call "when she is available", not me. At times I feel I might be making myself "too available" in which case she may or may not be taking advantage. However, sometimes I think one thing and it's completely wrong of how she feels. The problem is, I always have to confront her about situations on the phone, because she likes "avoiding confrontation", which is fine, but that's no excuse to try to hide your feelings. I mean I can't just pick this stuff out of the air all the time and I shouldn't. She's mega outgoing, but with relationships she can't let me know if there's something wrong. So, when I think something is wrong I ask her "Are you ok with things so far in the relationship", sometimes I feel like a broken record... I mean she texts me... but it seems like its ONLY when shes not with friends, almost like I'm a 'backup'. I mean dont get me wrong I dont want every sparing moment talking to her, but I just feel like it's genuine... if you get what i mean I mean I saw her last weekend, going to see her this weekend for the 4th she invited me there... its not like she doesn't want to hang out....hmm I dont know maybe I'm just blabbering... anyone >? Thanks Link to comment
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