Cyan Kitty Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 I just bumped into one of my boyfriend’s friend. What she say make me uneasy. She says my boyfriend has never hurt any of girls he was with and has always been very good to them. But he is known to be a really sadistic toward males and has hurt a couple guys badly. She say he have put guys in hospital twice that she know of. One of them were her ex’s friend who tried to bully him into stay away from his former girlfriend. But my boyfriend end up beat this guy up so bad that he had a broken jaw and eye orbit, bruised liver, damaged a kidney, require over 40 stitches on face, and his sight have been messed up permanently and all this happened in less five minutes. My boyfriend isn’t even a big guy, he’s only 5’9 and under 160 lbs. She also told me that he used to be a masochist and many of scars on his back and sides which he doesn’t like to talk about are from his younger day when he used to sleep with this one chick who likes to drink and play with blood. She says it is a good thing he never wanted me to hurt him because it means he love and care about me. She warned me if I stay with my boyfriend, it will be hard on me because of his many injuries from kickboxing. Since he’s a kickboxer for living, he’ll be doing it for quite a while, so I have to be prepared for this. I don’t know what to do about this. I find those things to be quite disturbing. I have never known of any guy who is like him. Unlike most guys in early 20’s, he’s well dressed, very respectful and well mannered, polite, doesn’t feel the need to prove himself or show off at all, incredible intelligent, doesn’t drink or smoke, and yet he’s so good to me. He’s always making sure I’m ok, encourage me to do what I want to, always so gentle with me, never ever raise his voice or swear, and is always doing all little things to make me happy. But I find his past to be quite disturbing. I don’t know what to make out of it or what to do. I’m kinda uneasy about this information. Is there any red flag to watch out for? Link to comment
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