bhgurlzfoevabrin Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 Please help. Okay, I knew Shane for over a year. He liked me, but I did not see the signals. He was also having a hard time, so he did not ask me out. I see him again at the end of school. He likes talking. He contacts me online. He says he was totally glad to see me. He asks to hang out. He initiates everything. We hang out. He talks about the future, he compliments me, he acts stoked, and he introduces me to his family and friends. He still initiates contact, but tells me I can call him any time too. We go out five or six times, but each time is a separate weekend. We do not really go out during the week, but I do not think he goes out during week days. When I finally considered it a relationship instead of just dating was when we started talking in between dates, a week or two ago. We would go out on the weekend for 6 hours maybe, usually late and into the next day, and talk every other day or so for an hour. Now last weekend we had plans, they did not work out. He had an excuse. I bought it. This weekend, he wanted to do something but the day we were supposed to, he never called even though he said he would. I called, he did not answer. This happened in the beginning and I brushed it off because he acted like he never saw the calls, but it only happened once the first week. The next, he missed two of my calls but called back and apologized. Now he missed all of them and never called back. I feel like crap because of the mixed signals. The weird thing is, he never gave me a sign he did not want to see me anymore. Last time we talked he was still stoked about future plans. His excuses do not always make sense, but they usually do. He mixed up plans from the very beginning because on our first official date, he asked me on a date two days from then during that first initial date, but never called til the day after the day he was supposed to, then we went out that day. He had an excuse that time and I bought it. Link to comment
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