ElasticMagnetic Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 I had this boyfriend that I broke up with about 2 weeks ago. We'd been going out for about 6 months, but it was downhill by the middle of month 4. I didn't break up with him because I got tired of him or because he was suddenly annoying (though that did have something to do with it). I broke up with him because I had to. He was a control freak. He'd do whatever it takes to get what he wants. We argued a lot and he got upset if I didn't want to include him when I went out with my friends. It wasn't always like that, though. When we WEREN'T fighting, he was the best boyfriend anyone could ask for. But the arguments were too freakwent, and I always felt like I had to be careful around him. I tried to break up multiple times, but he'd get upset, grab me, chase me, and cry just to get me to stay. The 5th time I attempted to break up with him, I was finally able to go through with it, but he was upset and didn't take it well. He'd bang on the door, ring the bell, and argue with my father. He went around the house and was able to open my window and tried to get in. By then we called the cops. And worse, his mother. I was very sad because I never wanted it to come to that. But what's worse is that I wasn't scared when he was doing this all. I was so used to making excuses for him, putting up with his behaviour, that it didn't bother me. Now here I sit, feeling just aweful because I honestly miss him, and yet I'm upset at him at the same time. Am I the only one that misses someone who's abused me? Link to comment
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