Rebounds/rebounding

[CrashTestDummy]

What do you guys think? Is rebounding ok or is it messed up?

[imsoalive]

depends on how bad/serious the relationship was..I was a "rebound" in a marriage..caused issues because I didnt find out yrs later about some stuff about the last guy, and now Im separated.

 

Drunken, rebound sex is perty good though 1:

[darkplace]

It is messed up, been there done that wouldnt like to do it again. 'sigh' it only makes things worse.

[knightingale]

Messed up. Well, depending on how serious the relationship was really. If I truly loved someone, I don't see how I could possibly even think about being with someone else. I would hope that whomever I had been with would feel the same way. If I found out they slept with or made out with someone shortly after our break-up, I would be devastated and even more heartbroken. I think it just makes you feel worse in the end, anyway.

 

But I guess guys are more likely to rebound than girls because, let's face it, sex is how men feel wanted.

[SupaflyTNT]

Messed up. Well, depending on how serious the relationship was really. If I truly loved someone, I don't see how I could possibly even think about being with someone else. I would hope that whomever I had been with would feel the same way. If I found out they slept with or made out with someone shortly after our break-up, I would be devastated and even more heartbroken. I think it just makes you feel worse in the end, anyway.

 

But I guess guys are more likely to rebound than girls because, let's face it, sex is how men feel wanted.

 

Wow, not really.

 

But as far as rebounding goes, I think it's generally self destructive after a break up. Plus, it's most likely incredibly unfair to the reboundee because you don't usually go up and say "hey, wanna be my rebound?" No one really wants to be a rebound, do they? Actually, that could be another thread, lol.

[civilservant]

But I guess guys are more likely to rebound than girls because, let's face it, sex is how men feel wanted.

 

Dont tar us all with that brush thankyou very much.

[ghost69]

rebounds suck when you do it with an awesome girl. you can ruin your chances with her forever. yes, ghost has done it. several times.