Do I have reason to worry?

[blackgnat]

You seem like a nice guy, but I would look upon everything she says as being BS. Only after she was challenged by you did she then admit to the existence of the other DVD guy. She's not Mother Theresa, helping and listening and ministering to the emotionally needy-she loves the male attention. And she likes knowing that you'll still be around while she's picking and choosing and playing with everyone's emotions.

 

I think this has long exceeded the due date-you should have ended it when you realised how far she was in it with the married man. It's not your responsibility to help or wait for her to grow up-you're not her dad. As for all the financial stuff-ugh. Money makes EVERYTHING more complicated.

 

Please don't feel hopeless about it all-she's not who you wanted her to be. You picked a bad egg. Or maybe it was an empty shell.

[auburnslp]

yes-given some time you will look back on this and thank God that you are done with it. I've been there. When you are ready you will find a girl who would never do this stuff to you, and then you will see what love is meant to be. Good luck.