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I keep realizing what a big baby i am still at age 22. I'm still having to hold someones hand to do what i want in life, i know if i walked into a gay bar, i would be attached to what ever friend brought me there, to scared to talk to anyone, im still hiding under people dresses. Today i went in for an interview at this art business/gallery i put on a convincing show, and looked nice, but i know once these people started showing me around that i was so dumb founded, i didnt know what any of the words they were using meant, and the things they were explaingin to me were justbreezing by me, im pretty sure i was that kid in elementary school who was staring off into space, and didnt have much of an attention span, i find myself struggling with this to this day, people talk to me, and through either being insecure and not looking them in the eye, or thinking too much about what im doing, or simply not listening i space off, i get a new thought, or i just dont listen to what there saying, people would have to repeat things, i need to work on this serverely.

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Hi. Are you seeing a psychiatrist about all of this? It sounds like you have a lot of internal questions that you need to sort out. Thinking is just apart of life, everyone does it. However, if you're saying it gets so bad that you aren't paying attention to anything else around you, then you should talk to your doctor about it.


It could very well be a medical condition? I know people who have ADD and they are still 100 times smarter than I am. Attention deficit disorder is treatable, you just have to talk to the right person.


I also wanted to let you know that I know where you are coming from. Sometimes it's just hard to be yourself. I struggle with the same thing. In fact, everyone struggles within at some point in their life. Even the people who have it all planned out struggle. I guess it's just one of those things that everyone goes through. You can ask anyone about stress or problems and everyone will probably tell you they have been through them.


You just need to keep your head high and stop doubting yourself. You are just as important as the rest. Don't come down on yourself, because that's the worst thing you could possibly do. Others view you as you view yourself. If you view yourself in a negative light, then that will show through your actions and personality.


I hope you feel better.

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