CoCo2009 Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Me and my bf broke up about 2 and a half weeks ago. Around the 1 week point he came knocking on my apartment door telling me his has been a mess looking around my apartment for me and seeing if I was home just missing me and wanting to talk but was too angry at me to do so. We had sex that night. Then we didnt' talk for about 4 days and then I called him because I was upset about having sex with him and I told him that we needed to talk and I counldn't have sex with him anymore because it hurt and I couldn't heal and it wasn't right to have sex if we were not going to make up to eachother. He said that he knows that I can't have no strings attached sex and that he doesn't want to either but right now he doesn't want to commit becuase he is not ready after all the stuff we have been through. He then came knocking on my door again that night Monday and I told him NO we cannot have sex because we are not working it out. He started to say well I do want to date and see how things go he said he can't be in denial anymore that he loves me and he misses me. That doesn't mean we are together but somehow I had sex with him again. He didnt call me yesterday and I thought it had something to do with taking it one day at a time but I don't think it does. I'm just hurting myself. I called him this morning and told him I needed to meet him for lunch and I am going to tell him I can't see him anymore unless we are going to really work things out and if he see's a future with me. Its going to hurt if or when he says its over but I HAVE to do it. I have to be strong. Link to comment
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