Morbid Shadow Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 and mind games..... Some are subtle, others very obvious. The thing I want to talk about, is trying to get a better understanding so I can get a better grasp on the situation. I know its been said that its best to not try to figure the abuser out (if that is what he is) and to just move on with life. I dont agree with this train of thought. At least not for me anyway. I cant move on unless I figure out why...if I figure out why, then I wont feel as powerless against him, and I will have a better understanding of myself and how I got dragged into this in the first place. Knowledge is power. I find out that my time is very very very limited until he comes around again. I thought I had plenty of time to plan safety, but I guess I dont. I would like to know from some of you, why he talks me into believing that he wont hurt me, and that he will be nice to me if and only if I tell him a key piece of information and when I do, he straight out tells me the things he will do when he finds me.... Is he going to hurt me anyway, no matter which way I play this? Am I past the point of being diplomatic with him about this? What I mean to say is this: He tells me that there are ways to get rid of him, once and for all, all I have to do is xyz....and I do those things, and yet, he comes back, worse than ever before. He tells me to tell him to his face that I dont want to be with him, or see him ever again, that only then he will accept it and leave me alone forever. So I tell him to his face, and he winds up holding me for several hours, wears me down until I am basically a terrified mute.. What does this mean? Link to comment
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