Ruede Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 Curious... what is it about oral sex that guys find stimulating enough to cum? Is it necessary to actually suck? I try to suck a little. But sometimes I think it's the act in and of itself that's more of a turn on than anything else. I'd be happy if guys could respond to this question: is it the feeling of receiving head, or something more? Link to comment
joesonlineaucs Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 It's all about the head of the penis... it really is the most sensitive part of most male bodies ... its just great. Even handjobs are good, the sucking just is I dono... better lol Link to comment
Ruede Posted June 23, 2008 Author Share Posted June 23, 2008 So theoretically, rubbing and paying attention to the head with my tongue is good enough? Would guys rather be rubbed or not, while oral is given? Link to comment
d24 Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 if you're talkign about rubbing the shaft while licking/sucking the head.... yes. your man will thank you for it and its a lot easier to achieve orgasm this way. Link to comment
joesonlineaucs Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 So theoretically, rubbing and paying attention to the head with my tongue is good enough? Would guys rather be rubbed or not, while oral is given? Essentially Link to comment
ryan123 Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 Actually suck: Yes Around and under the head: Yes Lick along the whole front side of the penis: YES! Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 slobber all over it and then stroke the shaft as your focusing on the head and below at a fast pace. that sends me over. i love when a chick knows how to do this. I mean, head is head and it feels awesome regardless but some head is better than others. Link to comment
Godless_Heathen Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 I've always found it very difficult to climax through oral sex. Every time I've actually succeeded, I've had to do a fair amount of thrusting, because I've never met a woman who rubbed the sensitive bits vigorously enough. While the underside of the glans is definitely the part that does most of the feeling, enveloping the rest is pretty important too. It feels wrong if you don't feel completely enclosed. Which may be largely psychological. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 Use hands as well as mouth - alternate, and while using hands use your mouth to say naughty things. Position your self for optimum visuals too. Link to comment
Ben10 Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 Curious... what is it about oral sex that guys find stimulating enough to cum? concentrate on the rim of the head...that is where its most sensitive. But vary it up with a quick deep dive once in a while. Is it necessary to actually suck? Most women don't, but when they do....oh man!!! Link to comment
Ruede Posted June 23, 2008 Author Share Posted June 23, 2008 slobber all over it and then stroke the shaft as your focusing on the head and below at a fast pace. that sends me over. i love when a chick knows how to do this. I mean, head is head and it feels awesome regardless but some head is better than others. I think that's what I usually do. Are we talking about.... getting the whole shaft wet, rubbing it with my hand after and focusing on the head with my mouth? Sometimes I take more in my mouth as I move my hand down, and then pull up as I move my hand up. Hm. Link to comment
Ruede Posted June 23, 2008 Author Share Posted June 23, 2008 Most women don't, but when they do....oh man!!! Okay good! Cause I actually do suck. But mrrf... no matter what I did with my last partner, I was never able to get him off with oral sex only. Maybe he just wasn't... as responsive to it... I dunno! Link to comment
Ruede Posted June 23, 2008 Author Share Posted June 23, 2008 Actually suck: Yes Around and under the head: Yes Lick along the whole front side of the penis: YES! I did all those things with my now ex... and he never got off from it. Double-yoo-tee-eff! Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 soo hard to describe but when i give head i take the guy really deep right away, cover him in my saliva, than i start licking the head while stroking the shaft, I vary how i lick from light flicking to full on...i make sure i keep it nice and wet, that my hands are constantly working a long with my mouth....occasionally i will go down and give the balls some attention, licking and sucking...always stroking the shaft no matter what....you learn what does it for your guy as you try new things.. communication is key to a good bj ask him what he likes and doesn't like.. no complaints thus far... Link to comment
greywolf Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 soo hard to describe but when i give head i take the guy really deep right away, cover him in my saliva, than i start licking the head while stroking the shaft, I vary how i lick from light flicking to full on...i make sure i keep it nice and wet, that my hands are constantly working a long with my mouth....occasionally i will go down and give the balls some attention, licking and sucking...always stroking the shaft no matter what....you learn what does it for your guy as you try new things.. communication is key to a good bj ask him what he likes and doesn't like.. no complaints thus far... this was so descriptive that it made me blush a bit. hahahahah Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 this was so descriptive that it made me blush a bit. hahahahah haha i know you're not shy!!!! Link to comment
greywolf Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 haha i know you're not shy!!!! I'm not shy, that's how graphic it was! hahhha Link to comment
KG Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Okay good! Cause I actually do suck. But mrrf... no matter what I did with my last partner, I was never able to get him off with oral sex only. Maybe he just wasn't... as responsive to it... I dunno! Some guys can't get off from it....so used to their own hands,,,BUT if you are determined, ask him to help ...then you do the finish when he's close! Link to comment
Rabican Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 I think its just the visual aspect of it that I like so much... just something about it... That said, if you want him to enjoy it, use as much variety as you can. Use your hand on the whole thing, in a twisting/ up and down motion... that is great... And the more spit the better, gotta keep it wet. But as said before focus on the head to some extent.. thats sorta the magic button. Link to comment
zachtos Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 A good way to learn is to watch several different adult films. You'll learn more about 'presentation' then technique, which is a big part of felatio as well. The tip on the under side of the head and around the rim are the senstive parts for all men. What usually separates ho-hum felatio from Sweet mother of god felatio, is all in the hands. Use one hand to stroke up and down while slighty twisting the wrist, use the other to caress the testes, use plenty of saliva, and you will be performing like a pro in no time. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 drop some spit out of your mouth on it while using your hand. look at me in the face like you aim to please. no teeth!!! Link to comment
Ahhh Posted June 26, 2008 Share Posted June 26, 2008 I cannot cum! That sucks! (No pun intended). My favorite is when a girl can take it all the way down. Once a girl told me she had no gag reflex! I was like Giddy up! Link to comment
metrogirl Posted June 26, 2008 Share Posted June 26, 2008 soo hard to describe but when i give head i take the guy really deep right away, cover him in my saliva, than i start licking the head while stroking the shaft, I vary how i lick from light flicking to full on...i make sure i keep it nice and wet, that my hands are constantly working a long with my mouth....occasionally i will go down and give the balls some attention, licking and sucking...always stroking the shaft no matter what....you learn what does it for your guy as you try new things.. communication is key to a good bj ask him what he likes and doesn't like.. no complaints thus far... You should be writing those little books they sell in the sex shoppes. LOL *note* not that I have ever been in one of those places or seen any of those books......(whistles while walking away). Link to comment
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