Clarity Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 In short: How do I tactfully ask someone I've been chatting with for a while if they have more photos - or, and this is my gut feeling, is there no way of doing this politely? Background: I messaged a girl online who had a nice profile, but no pic. She replied with a single pic, which was cute, but just a headshot. We've been messaging back and forth for a couple of weeks and we definitely seem to get along well, have things in common, but of course if I met her, I would want there to be attraction. From the headshot, she seems cute, but I really can't get a proper read on whether I would be attracted to her. On the other hand, I have several pics up, a headshot and some body shots - you can tell from my pics what I look like. The thing is, I think it's way too obvious to ask for more pics that I'm asking because I'm not sure if I'm attracted to her - and that would be rude and hurtful. I was thinking of asking her if she had facebook and whether we could continue the conversation on there. My excuse would be that I would like to read her messages as soon as I can, even when I'm working, but I prefer not to access online dating sites at work. Do you think asking for her facebook sends to the wrong message? Ladies, any advice? Link to comment
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