SpeedingCars Posted June 22, 2008 Share Posted June 22, 2008 He confessed to cheating 4 days ago, I THOUGHT it was understood we were going to work it out, but... He's been acting distant. He's hard to reach. He calls me though... we barely speak for more than 5 minutes. What's going on? I don't know how this is supposed to work, this whole... "rebuilding after infidelity". I'm not sure if I'm supposed to be calling him, he's supposed to be calling me, should we give each other space... I'm not sure if it's guilt, embarrassment, or if he just doesn't like me anymore which is why he's been acting this way. I read other people's posts, and their SO's who cheated have begged, pleaded, etc. He has said "Sorry", but hasn't cried to me or anything. I understand there are no written rules as to how this is supposed to work, but general comments/ideas/input about what to expect would be nice. P.S. I have heard it so many times to "let him go, once a cheater... always a cheater", but I believe differently, so... I have made up my mind that this is his last chance. Link to comment
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