Peechee Posted June 22, 2008 Share Posted June 22, 2008 I have been dating this girl for almost two months. I've taken a few Uni classes(we are both in Law) with her over the last year and we reached a point where we started dating. I get along great with her as she has an amazing personality and is really smart; we can talk and joke about anything. However, the problem is that I'm not really attracted to her. She is quite pretty and certainly not obese but she is bigger, much bigger than I'm actually attracted to. I think I'm more accepting than most guys for excess weight but in this case it is just too much. I know this sounds really shallow and believe me it kills me, but I see all these women in a day which I'm super attracted to but when it comes to the girl I am actually with right now I am not attracted to her physically. I can't help it but I am just not attracted to her no matter what I do ](*,) I really, really want to just be friends with her but we all know this usually doesn't happen. I would be really heart broken if I didn't have her in my life somehow but I just can't date her anymore. I need advice to end this as soon as possible so I don't hurt her, on top of this I suck at breaking up with women period so this is gonna be killer. How can I end the dating relationship without telling her it is because I don't find her attractive and also still remain friends!?!?!?!?! Link to comment
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