A Break?

[Simply_Josh]

Recently me and my girlfriend of 3 months was talking I asked her what was bothering her she just said "idk about us anymore". So we continued to talk about "us" and other things of the topic. And I asked her what i could do to make this work. And she just said i think it will be better if we go on a break. then she said ill call you in a few days.

 

So my question. Are we still dating and not talking for a few days intill she figures out what she wants? Or are we like broke up intill she calls me and tells me what she wants. Or just what the hell is going on?

[Taking The Lead]

Well, if she's able to just up and break-up with you in the first place how much can you really trust this girl to be faithful?

[bartels]

You don't give much information in your post about your relationship with her...have there been problems, has her attitude towards you changed, less intimacy, less availability, are you getting along with her or do you argue? These things matter...was it sudden, out of the blue, is she experiencing other unrelated personal problems? Any chance of another guy in the picture?

 

Based on the limited information you give, I say she is blowing you off and you two are finished, she is just trying to let you down easy.

[Simply_Josh]

well the week before last she was always getting frustrated with me easily. she was on her period so i would say that was a big factor in all of that. And idk just last night she just sounded upset and w/e and i just asked her what was wrong. And we talked and all of this happened. I told her i dont want the reason for her not breaking up with me to be me getting hurt b/c i will end up getting hurt some time or another. and then she was just like it sounds like you wanna break up with me. and we just talked for a hour or so and she came to the "it would be better if we went on a break for now ill call you in a few days".

[arwen]

Hey josh,

 

I think that in when you are together for three months and want a break, it's not a good sign. To me, wanting 'a break' is another way of saying that you have serious doubts about your feelings. It could even be that she is scared to hurt your feelings by actually breaking up so she thought she'd soften the blow this way. If I were you, I'd ask for clarity. Someone who's into you (which is what you want and deserve) will not risk losing you this way.

 

I am sorry for your situation man. Hope things work out for the best.

 

Arwen

[orangesoda]

I agree with arwen, taking a break after just 3 months is basically her way of letting you down softly. This sounds like the typical 'honeymoon period ending' situation where the thrill and excitement of meeting someone new goes away. I would not invest any more into this relationship and move on.