Is this thought unreachable?

[loveyourself5]

Is there a possibility of an ex falling 'in' love with you again? Being this the reason why they ended the relationship in the first place. I guess I'm hoping to hear a 'yes' but the possibility seems so unreal to me. Is this even possible? or am I dummed and should wake up

[Supa_gurl]

My dad went through 3 marriages. And when I got married his advice to me was..."At some point you may fall 'out of love' but if you stick it out, and persevere you will eventually fall in love again. Afterall you fell in love in the first place for a reason." I may be giving you false hope and for that I am sorry. I just know that is what I was told.

[feelinblu]

I think it's absolutely possible. It just depends on the circumstances of why you fell out of love in the first place.

 

Read kanelio's letter about reconciling. It's in this same forum. What he says really makes sense. I saw it on here a couple days ago.. it might be on page 2 now.

[loveyourself5]

But what if that person isn't willing or better said afraid to try again because he/she might think that you're the same person that drove them from falling out of love? Specially when that person is very very stubborn!

 

Honestly I'm tired of the battle between fate and I. Part of me wants to leave it to fate and God's will but the other part of me wants to keep fighting and hold on to hope. I want to just say forget it and let it be but I can't make up my mind.

 

I just spent an hour talking to my ex and it felt so right and no it is not my mind playing tricks on me, I can just feel it, it is not wishfull thinking. There were several instances were we looked into each other's eyes and just held that gaze, I found myself looking away everytime. Neither of us wanted to leave, we could have talked about pretty much anything all day. But then the conversation tends to flow towards our break up then those horrible words come out "I fell out of love", then I start beating myself up and start questioning.

 

Also there is another mixed signal from my ex. I believe he got kind of jealous when I mentioned to him that I've dated different guys but nothing serious. I told him that I was seeing this one 'guy' now(which yes I've been out with but that's about it). All of the sudden my ex started questioning me, like "Where's he from?" "How did you meet him?" "Did you go to the movies?" "Have you hit it yet?" I was stunned and told him it was none of his business to which he replied "I was just asking, I don't really care" what was all this about? I'm so confused.

[feelinblu]

I'd say that you should state your case, and them give them time to think about it. Tell them that you're willing to try, and you're willing to hold up your end, as long as they are. Then be strong, and disappear for a while. They may or may not be willing, and unfortunately you can't change that. They have to be willing, otherwise it will never work.

 

But let them know how you feel, and then walk away. Don't beg, and try not to even cry. Then go work on yourself, and get yourself together. Breakups rip us apart, and it's better either way that you get yourself together whether you get back together or not.

[Loki71]

..."At some point you may fall 'out of love' but if you stick it out, and persevere you will eventually fall in love again. Afterall you fell in love in the first place for a reason."

 

Just curious has it happened to you? and if so what became of it?

[CatsMeeoow]

It's absolutely possible to fall in love with someone again. Happens everyday - even couples who never split but just lost the spark can find it again.

 

Will happen for the two of you? Who knows?

 

But it does happen.