what is your definition of...

[sfboi415]

thoughtful conversations?

 

And how can you use thoughtful conversations to help build friendships with a variety of people or start a relationship with the girl you want to be with?

 

I feel like my sense of humor has been tapped out, so now I'm looking for another way to progress with people.

[nuttybuddy]

thoughtful conversations are noticing the small things.

 

like, "i'm noticing that u usually part your hair to the left, but today you've parted it to the right, any special reason?"

 

thoughtfulness is being attentive to a person. listening carefully, gauging their feelings. agreeing or challenging their thoughts in a friendly way. but mostly agreeing.

[Crush85]

thoughtful conversations?

 

And how can you use thoughtful conversations to help build friendships with a variety of people or start a relationship with the girl you want to be with?

 

I feel like my sense of humor has been tapped out, so now I'm looking for another way to progress with people.

 

What works for me is being a well-rounded person. I read alot, I watch the news, listen to music, etc.

 

All of these are great ice breakers. I prefer to talk about deep things, but the only way it can lead to that is by starting small. Mentioning the weather or asking someone what time it is can be a great way to kick-start a conversation.

 

If you're talking to a chick, try not to talk about yourself so much. Ask her questions and be a good listener. But don't be annoying and ask her a ton of questions either; it's not an interview, lol. Be witty if you can. If she asks you something, try not to ramble too much.

[greywolf]

i think a thoughtful conversation is when you're talking about a subject that you are both knowledgeable on and it actually makes you think.

[cpc28655]

Today one of the food service assistants told me that she thinks that she has a "pancake butt". I asked her if she could please pass the syurp. That's about as thoughtful as I get.