Is there something wrong with me?

[fairykiss]

hi guys...its been quite a while since i post a topic... but i regularly read post from other members....

 

this post is basically on my own observation of my feelings...lately everytime i watched movies...especially related to love affairs or family relations...i always feel the part of the villain...like if there is the mistress...or those people who do awful things on the story...i always feel like i am that character. And i don't like the feeling...and this realization just occur to me after watching this last movie...(bold affair) i don't know if you're familiar...but i just feel weird about these thoughts i have. "swimfan" is another one...and i haven't done anything as even similar not even a thougth to what these villains did. I just feel that i have to check myself out otherwise i would not be able to know what am i really feeling so i hope you can give me insights to what you think about this. Is it normal? Is there something wrong with me? Have you also tried these feelings? I would like to ask your humble opinions about this... i hope you guys can share your thoughts on this. thanks!

[vfunkera]

Hey fairykiss, merry christmas!

 

Yea i was watching Santa Claus the movie and i thought i could relate to santa, with chuckling and making happy children . looool just joking. This is interesting, i do usually relate to characters, but never when there is nothing to relate on. If its something evil and i dont or cant remember anything i've done thats similar, then i dont really feel like the character, i usually just laugh at his luck at being in the situation! Or for any other role. I love watching films or listening to songs where i can relate to the situation, the actor or musician. If it doesnt relate to me then i would just brush it off, laugh or feel pity and sorrow at the scenario.

 

Have you done anything recently that you feel guilty about? Have you felt like the villain in a real life situation recently? I cant see how these feelings could just randomnly surface. There must be something that has happened. Perhaps its source is off a childhood experience or something relating to a certain fear you may have? I cant relate and i cant really give expert insight to whats happening, but i dont think it would be anything serious and you shouldnt worry about it too much. Try to relate or convince your mind that you are the protagonist or good guy/girl in the next film you watch.

 

good luck

 

Good luck

[russia]

sure you're normal, as long as you are in a relatively similar situation, or have been in a similar situation before.

 

but if you don't have similar experiences, but start to think you are the evil characters, you might want to check if you are possessed or depressed.