what to talk about????????????????

[killajames]

My sister is having this Christmas Party, and one of her friends is coming I asked her to be my date and she said yes. (she is 14 and 17) I don't know what to talk about.

[dude123]

Talk about whatever you want to talk about. Why don't you ask her some questions, make sure that there not a yes or no answers either. You guys could talk about many things. School, movies that you guys have seen, music, so on and so on. There is a lot of stuff to talk about.

[Cid]

Yea there is alot to talk about and if you cant think of something then do some small talk. That will get things going but talk about things you both like and if you dont know what she lake ask her. Good luck.

[Beec]

The best thigns to talk about: whatever she is interested in.

 

You can ask her open questions about her: what she likes to do? What she likes? what she thinks about anything? When you find a good topic go on that. A good one is one she starts talking about.

 

If you know her or know someone who does, find out what she likes and is interested in. If she loves growing violets, if she loves a certain type of music, art, books, design, whatever and you ask intelligent questions about it, she will talk about her interest and you will seem smart. For instance, a person wanting to talk to a baseball pitcher, would first try to know the basic rules of baseball then try to learn some strategy of pitching, then learn about how different pitchers worked. So, the guy is a pitcher and she asks about what kind so fptiches he throws, the conversation works into baseball and she quotes some famous pitcher about need to throw strikes, or needing to get the first pitch to be strike and the first batter to be an out every inning and acts like she doesn't know why? Why is that first out so important? Here is a guy talking to a woman interested in what he does and knows, and she seems to like it. He is going to like talking to her. If you know her interests and learn enough to ask a few questions, you will be fine.