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I am lost as to what happened!

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Well a short time ago, I started dating this girl. Things went great. We had a blast, then one day she says that she needs "time &space". Well, this all came from out of the blue. And, I was lost. I did not and still don't know what went wrong. Well, I whinned to her for a week and we met at our hang out. She then had to go save her sister from some conflict. Well, I asked for closure the day before Thanksgiving and got it. She sent me a message that she was trying to learn to be alone, but was not good at it. Well, the following friday, I said if she wanted to come to the hang out then she could it would not bother me. She did! Well, I played it cool, I did not totally ignore but I did treat her as if she were a friend. The next thing I know is that we were outside with her crying and she told me that she wanted to get back together ( which was cool because this is what I really wanted). Well, we hung out all weekend and things seemed great and therre was no problems. I stayed at her house Saturday night and left therre Sunday at four pm. She got busy the next couple of days, which I understood. Well, Thursday rolled around and I told her that I would like to spend some time with her. Then, every thing went CRAZY. Well I called her a feew times that night and got no answer. Well, she had told me that she was going to work Friday, so I called her and got hung up on (cell phone). Then, I called her house and got cussed out for waking her son. Then, I got an IM from her stating that I was suffocating her and she was through! Then another one saying that she was tired of my selfish needy bs! I left her alone. Then, Monday morning I get a IM from her saying U OK? I said I was and Asked how she was. We messaged back and forth over the next couple of days, Then all contact stopped from her. I IM'd her a couple of times to no avail. Then, Monday, I called her (from a number she did not know) and we talked for a few minutes. I tried to call her back but she would not answeer. Well, later that night

Should I even try to call her or just give up and chalk it down as history?

Or should i wait to see what happens?

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As hard as it is I would not contact her, and wait to see if she contacts you. Don't wait forever though. Sounds like she may be a little stressed too, and stress does funny things to you. It can make you short tempered and wishy washy. If she does contact you, you might ask her if you can do anything for her to help her out, even if it is just as a friend. Good Luck!

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