AuDiTT Posted December 4, 2003 Share Posted December 4, 2003 hi falks , im 15 but im going to be 16 after 2 mounth's anywya mine is like 6inches so is it normal or too big ?!?!? and my g/f r virgin and she's 12 so if i had sex with her would it be ok or not? i need ur advice ppl!!! Link to comment
lil_mamarains13 Posted December 4, 2003 Share Posted December 4, 2003 You are still young. Is this something you want to do? Also please don't push your g/f because she is very young too. If you do decide to have sex please use protection for your sake and hers. To me the size does not matter because it is how it feels during intercourse, and how the man treats you, but that is just my own opinion. Link to comment
SweetypieEnlightenedOne Posted December 4, 2003 Share Posted December 4, 2003 I think you should wait before you give yourself to someone at such a young age. And her being twelve, well , if you care about he alot, then give her atleast a few more years before doing this act with her. Please refer to " 14 and Pregnant Again!- Help " that should help you out a little bit. Link to comment
AuDiTT Posted December 4, 2003 Author Share Posted December 4, 2003 thanx man for ur opinion. but im really scared of having sex with a virgin girl on 12!!! and yeah we are ready 4 it Link to comment
Gilgamesh Posted December 4, 2003 Share Posted December 4, 2003 I would have to say this girl at 12 is way too young, she may be curious about it and all but its something she will regret later on. She wants to have sex mostly because she loves you, and want to give you everything she thinks you want. tell her its not something that important to you. As for the size thing, don't worry, the penis usually reaches its "size" early, remember unlike the rest of the body that relies on the bone structure for its size, the penis is "boneless" (please no joke here lol) anyway, its just a spongy tissue, and the size you have is normal avg size for an adult. you will little more growth there. If your GF just "has" to please you somehow, there are other things she can do. but please wait some more before you have sex with her. Link to comment
SweetypieEnlightenedOne Posted December 4, 2003 Share Posted December 4, 2003 Ready, Ok wel then ask yourself this. are you ready to support a child if you don't use a condom or if the condom breaks? Link to comment
AuDiTT Posted December 4, 2003 Author Share Posted December 4, 2003 come down ((SweetypieEnlightenedOne)), ok ok i wont have sex with her but as "Gilgamesh" sayed that ther is an anuther way 2 have sex like anal sex maybe ? so can u guys gimme a better way but not from her *** cat u know Link to comment
Gilgamesh Posted December 4, 2003 Share Posted December 4, 2003 Just one more thing to add and this is something you should consider greatly! If her parents find out they could and may press charges, even rape! you see under law, it doesn't matter weather she wanted it or not, she is considered too young to make those choices, you on the other hand, being 15 can be tried as and adult, it has happened! At the very least, they will prevent your GF from seeing you, and that will be the end of that! If you think her parents wont know, better think again, what if she is sore afterwords? what if your GF feels guilty about what she did? do you really think all that risk is worth a few minutes of Sex? your 15 and horny as heck right now, but you need to stop thinking with your little head, and start using your big one. Link to comment
AuDiTT Posted December 4, 2003 Author Share Posted December 4, 2003 i got it ! thanx man alot alot and alot u and every 1 helped me and who tried and couldn't thanx falks Link to comment
Mermaid_gurl Posted December 4, 2003 Share Posted December 4, 2003 wow. alot i g2 say about this one lol. okay. im ur age.. a 15 girl... i no u already said you wouldnt have sex with her but i just have to say it again DONT HAVE SEX WITH HER. she is way to young and there's too much that can go wrong. if u really g2 take it a step further i wouldnt go to anal. even the thought of that makes me wince. might b pleasurale for u but it will most likely b extremely painful for her. if u do have to do somethin.. there's always hand job/finger or of course oral but thats also a huge step. now im confused on one thing.. wut did u mean by: "so can u guys gimme a better way but not from her *beep* cat u know" did u mean not having intercourse or u not having to give her pleasure 'down there'. if u only want her to give u pleasure and u dont even try giving it in return.. thats wrong. (unless of course she doesnt want it. talk it out) o and i question for gilgamesh.. he cant b tried as an afult at 15 can he? i thought it was older. Link to comment
avman Posted December 4, 2003 Share Posted December 4, 2003 Whether it is illegal or not depends on the location you are in. Every country has different laws and they also vary by regions within the country (such as U.S. states or Canadian provinces). I also think you should not have sex with her just yet. She is still really just a child and not ready. Give it some time. Link to comment
The Morrigan Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Ok... I did some checking just for information. Most states draw the line at 12 or 13 as to whether the girl is even PERMITTED to consent, in other words, they don't consider someone that age capable of giving consent, no matter what they say. The other party also being a minor doesn't matter except the degree of the charges that can be pressed. Charges do apply to minors, though generally, it's downgraded to a misdemeanor as opposed to a felony. Some states, if the girl is 12 or under, also put the offenders name on the "known sex offenders" list, minor or not, consent or not. I'd stick with making out, and if you really think you need to explore more sexual things, talk to her about it, about what she wants to do, not just for you, and take it slow enough to let her mind catch up to her body and hormones - there's plenty to explore physically without sex per se. Link to comment
routerx Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 No. It's not okay if you have sex with a 12 year old. It's simply not okay. That is a young girl, a very young girl. Actually, I'm not even sure that it is legal. A girl that young CAN get pregnant. Do you know that there is no contraceptive (rubber, pill, whatever) that works 100% of the time? Are you willing to live with a new baby in your life or are you willing to live with a 12 year old having an abortion? Horrible reprocusions aren't they? Even anal sex... that's just as bad. Do you understand what happens to a girls colon after anal sex? Do you understand the reprocusions? A 12 year old having anal sex, the fact is, are you willing to see blood on your penis? You wouldn't feel to good about it would you? What I'm saying may make you angry, but the fact is, you simply need to understand what you are thinking about, because all actions have a reaction. You need to understand what those reactions are. This isn't the movies.. this is life. Do the girl a favor and give her a HUG. Link to comment
musicguy Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Dude, look at your post again and look at your gf's age 12. 12 is way to young to be having sex. She hasn't really even "fully" developed yet. Don't have sex with her at all!!!! Link to comment
Gilgamesh Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 When I mentioned "other" things you can do, I was talking more in the lines of heavy petting, and touching. not anal sex. Why is sex so necessary in your relationship with you? if you or her feel that this has become necessary to feel "complete" then something is obviously wrong. I remember something called romance, Hmmm where did it go? Link to comment
AuDiTT Posted December 5, 2003 Author Share Posted December 5, 2003 guys i dont know what 2 say but U ppl opend my eye's. i realized that theres no point 2 have sex with her . and i dont think that im gonna do it im just gonna take as a normal relation ship without sex or allmost kissing and tuching . right? Link to comment
EmptySoul Posted December 6, 2003 Share Posted December 6, 2003 hey. from what ive heard from most peole 6 inches is average so dont worry about it. im 14 and have considered having sex but she's 12! well, if you're sure you're ready then, okay. just be careful. EmptySoul Link to comment
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