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Still miffed at ex-mutual friends... :(


Celadon
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Hi everybody. Well, I could use a little advice from y'all. My problem's not so much my ex but our old mutual friends.

 

I'm back on speaking terms with my ex (it's been months since the breakup), but I still am stung by some pretty insensitive things some friends said after we broke up -- and I'm wondering if I should even bother to be friends with them now.

 

The situation was that I gave 100 percent to make the relationship work; I feel like he gave 50%. But he's got a lot of charm, so people see him differently, more just the superficial parts. After the breakup, friends said things like, "Oh, I don't blame him for not wanting to be tied down right now," or "Oh, he's not a bad guy [-- but now let me tell you about MY problems]."

 

These days, I get mad when I know someone's been talking to him, or is hanging out with him. I don't know what I expect, but I just feel really uncomfortable and even feel like cutting off all ties with them.

 

What's going on with me?

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