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How do I stop being jelous


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When ever we watch tv, or she any hot girls I always say something negative about them, I try not to but I know that he likes these girls and I feel like if I dont say something then hes gonna think that its ok to like these girls and make comments about them right in front of me.

 

For example he always giggles when theres a hot girl around or when we watch tv and he sees a hot girl. Its so annoying I have even told him about this and that it makes me jelous, and that I wanted him to stop, but at the same time I dont want to change him, so how do I get over my jelousy. I want to get rid of it forever.Please Help

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Hi,

 

I have a similar issue with my b/f. Each time he happens to glance at an attractive thin blonde, I get jealous but we have managed to make it a joke in a sense because he's so obvious about it! I laugh it off, and believe me-it helps to laugh about it if you can. There's nothing less appealing than a woman with low self esteem, and that's exactly what I suffered with most of my life, until I started to realize that change has to start within you first. Once you're comfortable with yourself, no matter how beautiful or sexy someone else is, you're going to feel okay because you're okay with you. The first step is to accept yourself as you are. Everything else will fall into place and maybe then you will realize that you deserve a better, more considerate partner. Does your b/f realize how this makes you feel? Maybe you need to talk to him about it more deeply because it really sounds as if this is affecting your relationship. Are you prepared to leave the relationship over this? If so, maybe you need to consider that as the best option available, life is too short and you need to feel good about yourself regardless of the outside world-if there is no enemy within, the enemy without can do no harm.

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you should be flattered more than any thing. of all those hot girls on tv that he sees, he obviously thinks you are on the same hotness level as them. no matter how hard you try, there's no stopping him from thinking other girls are attractive. i think many celeb guys are hot, but i wouldn't trade my bf for any of them. i know my bf sees good looking girls on tv all the time. im sure you see guys you find attractive all the time too, but it doesn't make you love your bf any less. its the same thing with him. he chose you for a reason. its because he likes you, so you should be happy & not worry about it.

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yeah I guess its true I need to feel good about myself first but I cant just pick up and leave him because we have a child togeather and I noticed that this problem has appeared in other relationships too. And I do look at other guys too i suppose and it doesnt make him jealous. Thanks for your help.

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