Kissing on first date?...

[matchbox]

Okay if I'm on a first date with a girl, when/how should I try to kiss her? Or should I wait until the 2nd date?

[SilverPoet]

Just kiss her dude..I think she will like it alot..and if she turns away..don't get discouraged..maybe she just wants to save the kiss for a very special place and time...maybe when you both are alone and no one is around..like at a park at night or somethin..hmm?

 

If we never took chances, then how could we possibly achieve anything...

[Slagar]

Try not to think or worry about it, as that will make it harder.

If you find the right moment, then you should just go for it... often a good time is at the end of the date when you're about to bid her goodnight.

 

Goodluck

[j-boe]

I don't kiss on the first date... I make love.

 

-j

[neva_black_n_white]

you'll know when its the right time to kiss her, and if thats on the first date go for it!

she will show you if she likes you by the way she looks at you, body language and if she touches you. so read the signs, have a laugh and go for it.

 

and like the others said if she moves away dont ake it to heart too much.

 

kel

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

lol @ J-boe...you make love? *in ur head*!

 

Don't pressure urself, if u really want 2, u'll do it, if ur shy then there's always next time...the longer u leave it the better coz it'll just be worth more or she'll kiss u when she can't take it no longer!

 

Happy Heb

[Gilgamesh]

yeah, just do it, when the time is right.

 

no french kissing or anything, but kiss her on the lips. keep it a little long, that will convey your feelings for her. but not too long.

 

hehe i know it sounds complicated, just let it happen.

[viettwinkle503]

well if i'm on a date w/ a guy, i don't want to focus everything on physical contact. first you have to judge how much chemistry is going on between the two of you. if there's a lot you should definitely kiss her, but if you're unsure if you even like her... i think that means you should get to know her more.

 

usually i prefer a kiss after the first few dates..shows a guy has patience and understanding. usually if a girl wants to be kissed she can show certain signs of interest and that's your cue to make the move. unless she's super shy it's hard to tell. that's all i have to say

[The Morrigan]

You'll probably be able to tell if she's ready for that or not - if she's the shyer type, or you're unsure, give her a kiss on the hand or cheek instead of on the lips.