G~was I justa fool to believe........

[sweetnpetite]

Anybody ever felt like someone pretended to like you?

I sure feel that way now. I mean why pretend to be someone you are not? What is the rewards in leading someone on? I should have known it was to good to be true. I wanted to believe he saw something in me he liked!

He begged me to talk to him to tell him my most heartfelt secrets. He even wanted to know my favorite foods, and promised to take me to Disneyland b/c I never went as a kid!

Suddenly, he is now ignoring me! The last time we chatted we were getting pretty close to cybersex but he wanted to continue over the phone. I felt kind of shy about it so I said no. He tried to act cool about it at first and said to forget it. Turned around to ? if I was really a womanl not a old man or little girl! I was mad b/c he asked this so he refused to talk about it. The rest of the chat went okay and he even started swapping details about our bodies, i have seen his pix, he aint seen mine though. It is my fault cuz I have been telling him I was gonna send one and I dont.

I have sent him a few off line messages but he wont answer me!

I am real sad over it all. What do I do? I know he had just met a girl online and she totally rejected him after he drove like 2 days to be with her. I am just telling myself that he is just scared of being hurt. He said she led him on and that he could never trust her again!

I am so damn depressed I think I will just get totaly wasted I am already half way there! Any input?

[S4il]

well you help me so I'm going to try to help you.

 

 

i'd first like too point out what you said

 

sweetnpetite

The last time we chatted we were getting pretty close to cyber sex but he wanted to continue over the phone. I felt kind of shy about it so I said no

 

he is just a waste of your time, why would a guy only focus on that....well it's our nature, and some men haven't been able to harness that "sexual Drive" and can't control it sometimes, so while he had you "feeling Comfortable" talking, he wanted to see what he could get away with, But i respect you for NOT doing it "cyber Sex" is so over rated, I'm glad you didn't give in...forget about him. why i say that is because look what else he has done.,

 

sweetnpetite

I have sent him a few off line messages but he wont answer me!

 

he wanted nothing more but a thrill, and wanted to see if he could get you to talk about "sex" now he doesn't write or call back, Simply because he did get what he wanted. Good for you...!!!

 

sweetnpetite

I am real sad over it all. What do I do?

 

Don't contact him, and if he contact you just say "well i don't want to associate myself with you anymore"

 

 

 

sweetnpetite

I know he had just met a girl online and she totally rejected him after he drove like 2 days to be with her. I am just telling myself that he is just scared of being hurt. He said she led him on and that he could never trust her again

 

Sounds like some well thought of B.S. to me, Who knows it could be true....think about this, She rejected him...umm maybe because he did the same thing to her as he did to you...he isn't going to change, his mind is that of a 18 yr old, who only thinks about "SEX" he needs to grow up. and you have to be the one to tell him.