V-Day(Yes another V-day post sorry :) )

[Magic_star829]

Ok so I've been seeing this guy now for a little over a month (though we chatted online for a year before we met) and things have been progressing quicker than my usual pace due to feeling comfortable. By V-day it will be about 7 weeks that we have been dating (We aren't exclusive yet though neither of us is seeing other people at the moment).

 

Ok so basically I don't even know if he is planning anything on that day or if he even will even get me anything (he's 26, but looking for a job and basically broke right now). I actually couldn't care less if he doesn't buy me anything but I think I would be hurt if he didn't at least make me a card or dinner or something that shows he cares, heck I'd be swinging from the chandelier if he just wrote me a poem or drew me a picture haha.

 

Anyway, regardless of whether or not he will do/buy/make anything...I want to get him something. I also am broke (University student), and so I can't afford much. I've gotten him a card that is humorous and not too serious as this is a new relationship, and also his favorite chocolate. But I don't know what else to get him... I feel like I am missing something and the chocolate isn't enough I'd like to add something else but am out of ideas. I know guys don't like stuffed animals and stuff haha so guys.....any ideas??

 

*Keep in mind it will only be 7 weeks on V-day so not something that would signify something too serious as I don't want him running for the hills haha.

[StretchGee]

A card and his favorite chocolate are fine. As an additional 'gift', go out of your way to look pretty for him (nice makeup, fresh nail polish, nice hair). Men love it when their woman goes the extra mile to look nice for them.

[Magic_star829]

Thanks for your reply Well I already do this most times. It's still in the early stages so I always try to look my best and for that night it's going to be a given. I just want to get him an extra thing also in case he does get me something also(I would feel bad if he spent more on me than him). And I don't want to tell him to have a spending cap because I want to see if he will remember on his own....does that make sense?

[StretchGee]

I just want to get him an extra thing also in case he does get me something also(I would feel bad if he spent more on me than him).

 

Magic, you are way over-thinking and obsessing here. Maybe a common V-day malady for many. It isn't a contest!

[Magic_star829]

Haha you're right I know! This is just new for me....I haven't been in a relationship on V-day since I was 17...