RedDelicious Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 I really upset my guy yesterday, by being overly pushy and impatient. Someone really important in his life just passed away, and I acted like a complete moron, getting all worked up about getting some stuff done, that in the big picture is not really a problem. I just got pushy, "But it should be ready, and I want it now now now" He's a saint when it comes to deal with my whining in normal circumstances but this time I really pushed my luck. He is not emotinally alright, and there I was, complaining and demanding stuff, acting like a royal arsewipe. We talked and worked things out. I apologize deeply, but it still doesn't feel right. Talk is cheap, and lately I've been so moronic and saying sorry so many times, that it's beginning to sound phony. I really want to show him that I'm fully committed to him, and that I'm here for him. I wish I could mend the pieces of his broken heart -because of the loss- right now, but words are not enough as we are in different places at the time, and won't be getting together until the next couple of weeks. What to do? Link to comment
Shiranai Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 Do something to help him get ready for the funeral. Help him pick out a gift for the person that just passed away, or prepare your own gift to go along with it. Link to comment
doyathink Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 Do something to help him get ready for the funeral. Help him pick out a gift for the person that just passed away, or prepare your own gift to go along with it. Who buys the departed a gift? Op, lots of hugs and compassion will go a long way right now to show him you're right there with him to help him through this. Be helpful. Link to comment
RedDelicious Posted February 6, 2008 Author Share Posted February 6, 2008 Not sure about the gift either. O.o Thank you guys xx Link to comment
ghost69 Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 just be supportive in his time of grief. that's really all you can do. he will get over it. just work at being there. show him u care. Link to comment
Shiranai Posted February 7, 2008 Share Posted February 7, 2008 Who buys the departed a gift? Op, lots of hugs and compassion will go a long way right now to show him you're right there with him to help him through this. Be helpful. You don't? I buy gifts to put in their coffin or the grave with them. Link to comment
doyathink Posted February 7, 2008 Share Posted February 7, 2008 Huh! I didn't think you could 'take it with you'. Link to comment
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