So i meet this girl.. kinda suprised

[bmwm3]

so over the weekend i meet this very sexy young lady... called her today.. she was preety happy to hear from me... she is 26 i am 28.. the surprise was she said oh yeah i am in the middle of a divorce.. she got married at 21 to a guy 8years older... i guess it was a shock to me.. i have never went out with anyone that was married before... and the broke up 4months ago... she kept going on about how sexy it is that i was 6,4.. and she wanted to see what thats like... i guess her ex husband was 5,4... i dont know i guess all this is very weird to me.. its seems like she just wants to use me for whatever.. i felt like she was way to open for talking for the first time... any suggestion how i should handle any of this... thanks

[lady00]

so over the weekend i meet this very sexy young lady... called her today.. she was preety happy to hear from me... she is 26 i am 28.. the surprise was she said oh yeah i am in the middle of a divorce.. she got married at 21 to a guy 8years older... i guess it was a shock to me.. i have never went out with anyone that was married before... and the broke up 4months ago... she kept going on about how sexy it is that i was 6,4.. and she wanted to see what thats like... i guess her ex husband was 5,4... i dont know i guess all this is very weird to me.. its seems like she just wants to use me for whatever.. i felt like she was way to open for talking for the first time... any suggestion how i should handle any of this... thanks

 

Yeah...5 years married + however long before that they were together...she needs time off from a relationship...whether or not she realizes it. Sounds like she is really into you physically. Maybe you can date her at some point...but right now I wouldn't get involved if I were you. She at least needs time to clear her head and oh yeah...finalize her divorce!

[bmwm3]

could she be just using me for the physicall.. and to build her confedence up.. then move on a few months... i guess i will never know if i dont try.. i should just brace myself for it and get not to atteched... this is all speculation.. she could have diff motives.. man dating is so diff..

[bmwm3]

no.. kids.. doesnt sound like any finincial problems... basically if ever it does go anywhere.. the rel..it is most likely to fail in the long run.. because in a way i am just a rebound out of divorce...

[ghost69]

could she be just using me for the physicall.. and to build her confedence up.. then move on a few months... i guess i will never know if i dont try.. i should just brace myself for it and get not to atteched... this is all speculation.. she could have diff motives.. man dating is so diff..

 

have you had sex? if not, she isn't using you. but if you want to pursue this, keep your feelings at bay. she did just get out. some people are ready to move on, some aren't. i don't believe as someone else suggested that she for sure needs more time. that is totally subjective.