Have you ever had to feel this? anyadvice?

[Packerfan]

So iam just getting over a girl who i liked very much, i hadnt talked to her in awhile, then today i was lifting in our school gym and she came up and started asken me whats the matter and talking to me, and all the crap or pain whatever that i was just getting over came rushing back. Idk i try to avoid her but she acts like she likes me but she also likes other people and its hard to put up with that with her. would not making any effort to talk be a good idea to deal with this or is it totally rude an wrong?

[Veroni]

If you are sure that it is unacceptable to witness her dating more than just you, you have to stand your ground. I commend you for knowing what you want and knowing what you dont want. I would simply avoid her at all costs. You dont have to be rude, but you dont have to stand there and make conversation either. Be polite say hello when she comes up to you and then walk away. If she starts trying to talk to you, be busy and move on. If she doesnt get the hint, I would let her know that although you accept her stand you dont agree with it and you dont wish to have a casual friendship with her at this time. Never ever feel bad for wanting or not wanting what you do...thats what makes you who you are.

 

Good Luck.

[ghost69]

what happened? did u guys date? if so, who broke up with who? if you haven't dated, don't let her play with your emotions. you know she is into other guys. i'd look for another girl and give her the cold shoulder unless she wants to be exclusive with you and only you.