Diablo7000 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 when a girl is how do you say.... really horny around her b/f around a any time of the month??? my girlfriend is a really good girl and doesn't want to lose virginity till ses married, but sometimes i will massage her legs, ( cause she asks me too ) because she runs track at school. last time i did this i got reall close to her private area and she was on her period a few das before but she let me rub her for a bit, usually before her period or during she wont let me touch her there at all, but tonight a week and a half after i was massagen her sore legs from track and i was kinda close but i was just hitting all the muscles. i wanted to just start rubbing it but i held myself back then i hit a spot on her underside of her inner thigh close to the pelvic muscles and she was like OoOo! that felt good, so i was watching tv as i massaged and was like where? and she took my hand and put it practically right next to her choo choo... lol anyway so i rubbed there for a bit on both sides, and she was starting to squirm a little bit so i looked her in the eyes and she just smiles back at me and kept watching tv, soo i rubbed there and she enjoyed it and even closed her eyes from watching tv to enjoy it lol but is a few days to a week or week and a half after a girls period her most sensitive time to make her aroused? just curiouse about this cause it seems she wont let me down there any other time except after lol another thing about the inner thighs, i've heard that, THAT is a REALLY good turn on spot for a girl insted of jsut "goin for the gold" starting on the inner thigh walls and massaging gently there is a very good start, what are some of your inpout on this? do you like it? is it just a "some girls" thing? Link to comment
Konfetkette Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Tons of girls are most horny during their periods, a little before, and after. Inner thigh is a huge turn on because you just want your guy to go for it... LOL. Waiting for that turns you on. Link to comment
Aleadragonhawk Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Arousal can be a really personal thing. Touching my thighs does nothing for me, but I get really aroused when my neck is touched or kissed - so I'd say that yeah, the thigh thing is a "some girls" thing. It's great that you respect her not wanting to have sex before marriage, but since things are starting to get a little more sexual between you two, you might want to sit down and have a talk with her (outside of an intimate situation) about where her boundaries are and what she's comfortable with. Is it all sexual activity that she's uncomfortable with, or just penetrative sex? I know that it can be awkward to talk about these kinds of things, but it's good to establish what the boundaries are when you're both thinking clearly and not clouded by arousal. Link to comment
Diablo7000 Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 kool so i'm spot on, and the inner thighs trick, sorry girls, but it makes us guys such a tease dnt u hate that lol and ud prob hate more if we jsut did that then stopped lol, i tried that one time tonight and she was like noo keep doin that it felt good lol but anyway, thanks just wat i was looking for, i'm not a girl soo i dnt know that junk lol thanks konfet Link to comment
Diablo7000 Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 dragonhawk, good idea on the talk thing, i think i'll keep that in mind, i'm not a V and she is soo i've had experience before and i do this stuff for her and she wont do anything to me to make it fair game ya kno? lol and i ask her why and shes like cause i'm not experienced as you are so i just tell her well i love you and i woud never criticise you for what you do unless u grab something to hard ya know lol but anyway, when i rub the nape of her nec (another great spot) it jsut makes her body limp and wanna lean on me and shes like doin that makes me wanna fall asleep but when shes aroused it might work differently havnt tried that during arousal might be a good thing to do, thanks when i kiss her neck it's a diff story tho, just liek u said you like, she does like me to kiss it lol Link to comment
Konfetkette Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 kool so i'm spot on, and the inner thighs trick, sorry girls, but it makes us guys such a tease dnt u hate that lol and ud prob hate more if we jsut did that then stopped lol, i tried that one time tonight and she was like noo keep doin that it felt good lol but anyway, thanks just wat i was looking for, i'm not a girl soo i dnt know that junk lol thanks konfet Well it's odd (for me anyway). It's better to start with thighs and go up. Going straight for it is odd and unexpected (unexpected isn't a good thing when you're doing your firsts). Touching her thighs first also saves you a ton of explanation about why you weren't listening to her when she said she wants no sex. If she wants she can just remove your hand and that's it.. but she seems to be enjoying it so you're good! edit: It can be really scary for girls who have never done it before to start touching you in all the areas we usually hide. Sometimes a girl needs a little, gentle push...sometimes a talk...sometime just wait oO. Don't like push her hand down your pants, LOL. Just give her a direction. She will figure it out and do whatever she wants . Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 kool so i'm spot on, and the inner thighs trick, sorry girls, but it makes us guys such a tease dnt u hate that lol and ud prob hate more if we jsut did that then stopped lol, i tried that one time tonight and she was like noo keep doin that it felt good lol but anyway, thanks just wat i was looking for, i'm not a girl soo i dnt know that junk lol thanks konfet you think that is funny that you are teasing her until you get * * * * -teased then you're going to hate it LOL My bf used to do that me, would kiss/bite on my neck and get me all worked up and then stop and laugh at the fact I was nearly begging him until one day I finally turned the tables and teased him so badly and then just stopped, smiled at him and walked away Link to comment
Diablo7000 Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 myth ur morbid lol jp nah i wouldnt do that, i love nibbling on her ears, they are sooo cute to me lol and i love kissing and rubbing her neck gently massgining her shoulders while kissing yada yada, she likes all the stuff i do, well i'm her first to do that stuff soo i guess its no wonder, but anyway i have alota fun with her, and still have good times with her when we are not alone and aroused, i really love her, i got her this VERY cute stuffed animal for valentines day, she likes big cats like lions, tigers etc.. soo i found this lion that is a valentines lion it's soo adorable came gift wrapped with a card with my own message i hope she loves it, it's soo awsome!! if some of u remember my thread what should i get her for valentines day Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Aww thats what you got her for Valentines day? sounds so sweet! Yeah, it can be a good thing to play around and "tease" alittle bit just don't tease and stop.. not nice !LOL you two sound really cute together. Link to comment
Konfetkette Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Diablo, you're such a good guy! Keep it up! as for the gift... stuffed animal seems good Maybe you can get some roses or chocolate too. When I was in HS, one guy somehow got the permission to ask his girlfriend over the PA for the Homecoming dance (maybe it was some other dance, but it was before Valentine's day). He said some nice things too, like "you're awesome, girl." It was sooo romantic! Link to comment
Diablo7000 Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 wel she doesnt like boxed chocalte, weird, lol but she loves reses soo i guess i'll jsut have to find like a variety pack of those lol i'm only gunna go with 1 rose we aint dated a looong time and i'm kinda money tight till i can find a job.. ugh... but i hope she likes it, we jsut saw meet the psartans tonight, if u aint seen it, save ur money, it's funny but wait for the rental lol anyway, u 2 arent the first to say we're cute together ALOTA people tell us that, her friends, family, friends of both our families... i think we are, i couldnt ask for anything better and shes sooo awsome to me, i wouldnt change a thing Link to comment
Konfetkette Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 If you're tight on money, just a bear would be awesome! It's the thought that counts anyway. It's only Valentine's day. Save the good stuff for birthdays Link to comment
Diablo7000 Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 i cant compare to what shes gotten me, she got me 2 nice shirts for christmas, i got ehr this gift basket of her fav bath and body stuff (sweet pea) it's awsome lol and she went to new york after chirstmas and borught me abck this shirt with drums on it and it says "it's all about drums" cause i'm going to school for drums and all that good stuff, then for my birthday buys me an american eagle shirt, i was like babe for real you're doin to much for me, her b/day isnt till august lol so i got a while thank goodness but i've gotten sumtin from her so far like every month we've dated lol not complaining just saying it seems like i'm not being fair to her lol Link to comment
jenny_mcs Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 wel she doesnt like boxed chocalte, weird, lol but she loves reses soo i guess i'll jsut have to find like a variety pack of those lol i'm only gunna go with 1 rose we aint dated a looong time and i'm kinda money tight till i can find a job.. ugh... but i hope she likes it, we jsut saw meet the psartans tonight, if u aint seen it, save ur money, it's funny but wait for the rental lol anyway, u 2 arent the first to say we're cute together ALOTA people tell us that, her friends, family, friends of both our families... i think we are, i couldnt ask for anything better and shes sooo awsome to me, i wouldnt change a thing You 2 sound adorable. It sounds like the things you are doing to her physically are turning her on, and you are going slow, which is great. Have fun! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 sounds like you might be the guy she wants to lose it to. sounds like you are getting closer to her giving it up. she might be ready. Link to comment
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