boomshanks Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Ok so when my girlfriend and i first started going out our intimacy level was very high. we weren't able to stay away from eachother. she was always on me and i was always on her. its been about 4months now and its completely died. now all we ever do is a kiss good bye. now we are only 17 but it still does sorta matter. should i be worried that shes losing interest? she says nothing is wrong so what could it be? Link to comment
leo_s84 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 The honeymoon stage is over... it happens. That she doesn't want to jump your bones every moment of the day doesn't mean she's lost interest Link to comment
rosephase Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 yeah the honeymoon rocks. Have you talked to her at all about it? Or tried something new. Are you guys having sex? Or doing other things? Link to comment
Censored Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Honeymoon phase, or there is something bothering her. Link to comment
MyNinja Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 It doesn't mean she lost interest, it just means she's gotten used to your presense and that initial spark phase is over. Are you guys around each other 24/7? What other activities do you engage in when you're together? Link to comment
shadesofmediocrity Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 I think you've maybe moved out of the area of infatuation into something perhaps more solid, perhaps more boring depending on your mentality. If things are still otherwise going well I don't think you ought to be too worried. Maybe talk to her about it? Link to comment
boomshanks Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 well we did talk about it. well not exactly that i asked her if something was bothering her and she said shes happier now than shes ever been with anyother guy. the honeymoon thing sounds about right because other than that we good. like yesterday we were watching a movie and i gave her a back rub. or she was coming over like 5 days ago and she baked me cookies and brought it as a surprise. we still talk 24/7. Link to comment
boomshanks Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 what i was worried about was if she was losing interest without knowing. but if its normal then i dont tihk im too worried Link to comment
boomshanks Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 hmm. well it didnt die completely but we are able to sit through a movie now. we still ahve difficulty saying good bye cause at times we just kinda stand there kissing for a while. but the whole talknig 24/7 why is that a bad thing? Link to comment
shadesofmediocrity Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 I don't see how the talking all the time is a bad thing, my boyfriend and I text back and forth throughout our whole day pretty much. haha. Though a little time apart can be good. Sounds like it is still going well though, you've moved onto a place where you're more comfortable, the kind of place where you can stay for quite a while. But if the lack of physical intimacy of the more racy type is bothering you, the only thing you can really do to fix that is create some I suppose. Link to comment
boomshanks Posted February 3, 2008 Author Share Posted February 3, 2008 no its not bothering me at all. although i wouldnt mind it but i was just worried something was happening Link to comment
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