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don't know what she is thinking...very confused

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Okay, I met this girl about three weeks ago, and we went out and hung out a couple of times last week. Everything seemed to be going great, and we even cuddled and kissed. We have so much in common that I thought this was going to be great. But, this past week, I gave it a couple days to see if she would call, and she didn't. On Wednesday, I called and we talked for about 10 minutes and she said she would probably call me on Thursday, but she didn't. So, today, I gave her a call, and we talked for a couple of minutes and then I said I would call her later this evening. About 7pm, I called her and left her a message, but got no call back. I don't know what is up. At first, I thought she was having a great time with me, but now, all of the sudden, it is as if she doesn't want anything to do with me. I don't know what to do anymore. Should I wait for her to call me, or should I keep pressing and figure out what is going on? Do you think she is scared of a relationship with me because she knows I am a great guy (she said that before) and that she is not ready for that or what? I could really use all the help and advice I can get. The more the merrier. Please help!!!

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I'd suggest backing off and giving it some time. Maybe she has issues to work out on her own. Keep the relationship light and fun to start with, people don't like rushing into a situation where they feel like every single move they make will have such a drastic effect on your feelings. If she feels like you are hurt by her actions, most likely that will just turn her off further.


Give it time and take it slow. Be friendly and light hearted.


Best Wishes,


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Give her a week before you try to find her just give her some time to her self. I had a problem with the girl that I am going after becouse I was calling her or going over there all of the time, So I took some time off 1 month and she called me to find out what happened to me. But now I see my self doing what she did becouse now I wate for her to call all of the time now. Ok so just give her some time

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