Losing confident.......

[needluv]

Briefly, i'm an average look guys who's studying in local university of my country. I started my relationship 1yr plus ago. Things seem to go sweet at the beginning, til the middle(now) when i started to lose confident in myself. She seems to changed and i cant have the feeling that she gave me at the beginning of the relationship. She always look down on me in many things, like :

 

1.) my height

- i'm just about same height as her, she said because of that she doesnt have chance to wear high heel shoes when going out with me

 

2.) protest and dislike things i do

-she likes me to do things the way she prefer rather than the way i like

 

3.) my vehicles

- I came from an average family, so i can only afford a bike to college. She dont like to follow me to class because she said she prefer to go with car where her hair wont get messy!

 

~it hurts me alot when gals told this to someone who love them so much!

 

4.) never treat me like her bf

- she seldom be with me in university, she rather mix around with her so-called friends who just go for her when they need her!

 

5.) care about what her friends think, rather than how i think?

- damn it, sometime she never care about my feelings in front of her friend

 

there are more....

 

I'm trying my best to give her everything i can, but it seems like never enough or maybe im not good enough for her? is she asking to much, or am i just an axXhole than does'nt deserve to get this relationship starteD? do money and wealth really that important for gals? i believe that if she loves u just because u have all the things she wants, maybe is because she loves your stuff rather than u...........

 

but do u guys think this few issues is enough to piss off my relationship?

[ghost69]

she sounds like a stuck up snot. i wouldn't be with a girl like this.

[ftheunion]

Ya, whats the point if she doesn't adore you? She is just a critic sounds like. If she doesn't spend much time with you, or doesn't value you as you feel, then let her do whatever without you.