Brittney2008 Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 Hello, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over two months now and I really want to do something special for Valentines Day. We really never go on dates or anything because were both homebodys. I asked him what we should do to which he replied he didn't know...were both 17 and don't have cars so going anywhere is kinda out of the question...I don't know what to do but I don't want to 'just have sex' any one have any suggestions for a slightly romantic valentines day at home? Much appreciated thanks!! Link to comment
Taomagicdragon Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 First, awesome profile pic. The below is post I put on another thread that you would obviously have to tailour to your situation, the general idea being to entice him over the day and involve love-making not necessarily meaning sex beforehand: Something you could do.... Take a pic of yourself in said lingerie and tack it to his car, jacket pocket, etc Send a note to him somehow reminding him how forgetful you can sometimes be and lose things Near the door have a trail made of the lingerie along the floor (separated by petals of some sort) starting with a note that reads similar to: "You know how forgetful I can be and how easily I can lose things, I went to get a snack and seemed to have misplaced it too" Place assorted fruit bowl and whip cream case/chocolate sauce case "on the trail" leading to wherever the magic is happening, leave another note saying: "I was also hoping to warm up" and, lo and behold, on the trail are some candles, massaging oils, and a match/lighter The trail leads to a CD of some mood music with a note stating how you love to listen to good music with good *insert beverage* and have 2 glasses and the container of the beverage. Also have a basket next to the front door's note so he can carry all the items That's an example of how to go about things Personally, I took my girlfriend out to dinner, saw a sappy movie tear-jerker, and then went bowling and drove around a bit. Was enjoyable for us. Maybe you both should go out to dinner and dress up for it? Link to comment
sweetharmony Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 ok. he's asking you to have sex for Valentine's day? ok. not the most romantic thing... don't feel pressured into having sex with him until you are ready. I'd suggest you both cook together and watch a romantic comedy or something. put together a nice menu of simple Valentine's day goodies...maybe a double chocolate cake or get heart shaped cookie cutters and bake cookie together and frost them together, too. a nice salad with strawberries, gorgonzola cheese, candied walnuts and raspberry vinaigrette french bread chocolate covered strawberries chicken or main course with some veggies and then rent a nice romantic film or something where you can cuddle on the couch. Link to comment
KG Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 If you make sex the main menu, what is going to follow? Make LOVEMAKING the dessert to end your date on. Dinner, or a movie, or just 2 hours kissing, petting. Just my thoughts... Link to comment
Brittney2008 Posted January 22, 2008 Author Share Posted January 22, 2008 thanks for all the advice. Thanks for the suggestions Taomagicdragon about leaving the notes. Thanks sweetharmony for the suggestions about baking and KG your right about sex not being the main course. Thanks!! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 have some candles and oils ready for when he gets home from work. don't just go for sex. but have a long nite of intimacy. Link to comment
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