Is impossible love better than possible attraction?

[Strong_Tower0]

Hey last summer I fell in love with a girl who lives in Kansas (I live in Colorado). Everything was great until all of a sudden we stopped talking as much as we used to. She said she still loved me but we never really got back to the place we used to be at. And now for the last couple of weeks we havn't talked at all, but I still love her. Last week I met this girl that is cute and really nice, who likes me and I think she'd be fun to get to know better, but I definitely know there isn't the same feelings for her there as I have for the girl who lives in Kansas. I don't know what to do. Do I wait and hope for an impossible love or do I try to get over her and date the possible attraction? Any advice/stories would be nice. Thanks.

[hear_her_roar]

Hmm, that's a hard one. Honestly, it all depends on what you're looking for; if you just want someone to date and have fun with, I would go with the closer girl. However, if you're fine on your own and satisfied with where you're at, and if you truly love the girl in Kansas, I would stay with her.

 

Distance is always hard, but from my experience being with someone who isn't the one you love is even harder. I've been in love with one of my guy friends for two years or so now, and while I've dated other people and loved them for the time, my feelings kept going back to him. I know it's not the same kind of situation, but what I'm getting at is the fact that my relationships didn't work out because my feelings for this guy didn't go away, you know?

 

Like I said, it all depends on how you feel. When it comes down to it, only you will know what you truly want.

 

Best of luck!