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[Tempcuriosity]

I dont want to get made fun of for posting this, no jokes please!

So I am in a relationship with this guy and him and Ilike eachother A LOT.

 

So we met on new years, we actually met and then slept with eachother.

I though it was done and over with, you know, one night stand,wam bam

Thank you mam. We ended up talking about it and decided to try to make

i work. I explained to him that I dont normally do that, but i was aware of

what i was doing,remebr every bit of it and don't reget it at all, he agreed.

One day we ended up asking eachother where we stand, well we are now

an official couple. The thing is, I ve only been seeing him since the New Year.

 

I have let him "take care of me" and I have "taken care of him too" SITUATION

drank a vanilla frapp and ate absolutly nothing but a sandwhich this day.

 

Him and I were having sex last night. I as riding him, everything was fine. We

were REALLY getting into it. So I decided to TRY the Backwards cowgirl,well

this was good. I felt almost like i was going to go Number2, I was dizzy and

horny and in the mood. Didn't want to kill it by Stopping and going to the

restroom. Sooo I didn't I decided to role over and let him take care of me from

behind, you know, Doggy Style. THIS is when it happened. The sheets were covered

with SOMETHING! That came out of ONE of US. I was freaked out,So i went to

the bathroom, well it turned out to be, a little bit of the number 2!! So discusting!

I told him it was "Blood." I believe it may have been on the sheets some kind of

blood, we were going pretty deep and that was the first time I have ever Riden TOP

 

UMM so while i was in the bathroom, i was short of breath,sweating,.most

felt like I ran a Marothon. Felt sick and discusted with myself. I seriously

wanted to start breaking down in tears. After he went and washed up,

he gave me a hug and held me and told me its okay, he wouldnt be upet

if i wanted to go home,asked me what it was, i told him what i thought it was

left out the number2 commit. I just didnt want to be completely 100% honest

because of how embarrassing it is. Well, I ended up spending the night,he

fell asleep holding me. When I woke up he wasnt holding me,kind of made

me feel like he didn't care. That next morning, everytime id go to get out

of bed, hed wake up and ask me where im going or just Say "BABE.." So

as for the relationship at this current moment, things feel rocky even though

we have spend time on the phone talking, hes actually sick at this current moment

 

UMM DO YOU THINK THIS happened BECAUSE IT HAS TO DO WITH

THE FACT THAT I DIDNT REALLY EAT ANYTHING AND SLAMMED DOWN

A COFFEE. I REALLY want to know how to recover and Prevent this little

Episode from happening again, Cut the coffee all together?? Eat something

else?? Should I tell him the whole truth or do you think I SHARED enough?

I dont want him to be turned off over this because before, he could get turned

on soooo easily, just from touching him.. NOW Im afraid I ruined it...Do you think

he feels the same for me, he tells me he does and he just wants to give me

time to recover because he feels that he might of Hurt me. But for some

Reason the voice in my head is telling me, this is his way of saying bye bye poo

head!! it really kills me because I like him a lot and have never EVER gotten this

close with the opposit sex.....What should I do,any Suggestions would be

helpful[/b]

[m12988]

I think you have a really sweet, caring guy on your hands. It takes a lot for some people to deal with bodily fluids from people and it sounds like he handled it in a mature, non-embarrassing way. I dont know, maybe the only way to prevent this is when you feel the need to go to the restroom, just stop and say "i'm sorry, i will be right back, all of the sudden i have to use the restroom". Its a tactful way to say it and if he is a good guy he won't mind lol. Sometimes the milk in frappucinos can make one have diarrhea too, or the excess sugar in them. Anyways, I think this guy is nice and i dont think he'd try to get rid of you over something like this. Really, it isn't gonna hurt if you don't tell him that it was poo. This is not something that can make or break a relationship. If you do tell him, hey, we are all human and we all poo. End of story, lol.

 

If you feel like he wasn't holding you because he was mad, thats not true either. He fell asleep holding you you said, but i dont know about him, but when i fall asleep holding someone, i don't usually wake up holding them later. We all move when we are asleep. He simply moved into another position unconsciously. Just relax, this relationship sounds like it's gonna be good

[wayoverit]

As a guy myself, I don't think this sorta thing bothers the guy. It's kind of a fetish thing even. It's nothing to worry about. It would help you if you can imagine the day you are giving birth to his child in the delivery room, with him in there..

[pinkelephant]

i agree with m except for telling him it was actually poo. how can he not tell though? anyway, yes, i've been there. wanting to go but not because dont want to ruin it. we all have. you're very lucky with such a sweet guy. don't panic, just appreciate him. it's harder to said than done, but clearly, he's fine.

 

even if he doesn't bounce back exactly like before, it doesn't warrent you to panic either.. just chill out and give it some time. sounds like you got a winner on your hand.

[m12988]

As a guy myself, I don't think this sorta thing bothers the guy. It's kind of a fetish thing even. It's nothing to worry about. It would help you if you can imagine the day you are giving birth to his child in the delivery room, with him in there..

 

There is a lot of poop involved with childbirth Good thing is, that explains just how mature and caring your man is, early on in the relationship. This means this relationship is worth your time and committment. Proves he'll be a good dad to your children too Even if you may not be thinking of that yet....lol

[Tempcuriosity]

Im not thinking about Kids quite yet, im only 19,

funny how you bring it up though, hes 26 and has got a little girl thats 4 yrs old=) The whole reason I was letting lose was because I was

actually trying to have my first oragasm...maybe next time, in a few weeks or months...Im not getting on that pogostick anytime soon...

[Aleadragonhawk]

Try to always go to the bathroom before sex, and if you start feeling sick during, don't hesitate to stop.

[shoppingGirl]

He sounds like a good guy, and having a child probably has made him more understanding of things like this. If you have not had an orgasm before, maybe you were trying to hard and used the bowel muscles. Try to let it happen on it's own and not try to force it to happen. I have tried to orgasm before i was ready and it just felt like I had to go to the bathroom lol. He sounds like a keeper....

[teknoise]

Sounds like you found a keeper! He obviously cares and wasn't grossed out to the point of wanting to be rid of you. He did hold you till you fell asleep. As for not holding you when you wake up, to be honest, as much as I love cuddling my gf, it can be hard to sleep without having a bit of space to myself. Nothing against her, it just gets a little hot and sweaty and can be uncomfortable.

 

Anyway, the point is, don't worry about it. Hes still around and he wasn't irked by it. Don't start feeling as though the relationship is on the rocks because from what I see its not. Thoughts like those are poisonous, so avoid them.

 

As for bumsex and diet, I would avoid dairy products and coffee the day of. Make sure you are all 'cleared out' before hand as well... but not immediately before sex, give it some time afterwards.

 

 

Im not thinking about Kids quite yet, im only 19,

funny how you bring it up though, hes 26 and has got a little girl thats 4 yrs old=) The whole reason I was letting lose was because I was

actually trying to have my first oragasm...maybe next time, in a few weeks or months...Im not getting on that pogostick anytime soon...

 

Speaking as someone who has a child themselves, I can safely say that very little grosses me out now because of my daughter! I'm sure he's the same way.

[android12]

yea i agree with all the things above. he sounds sweet. when he said he didnt wanna do it to hurt you again, to me he was being legit seeing as you told him it was blood and he probably thought he did it too hard or fast or too deep etc....just take it slow, let the O happen naturally, if it does GREAT,if it doesnt, you had fun anyway

[grymoire]

I am a bit confused by your post... Were you having anal sex? And you didn't even realize that you pooped while having sex? sorry.. but it's hard to imagine how some one can not know that they went number 2. you would have at least slightly farted...

 

On the other side... I don't think you have to worry about anything. This guy seems to be really nice and understanding. So don't get paranoid... But of course don't drink frap next time lol..

[ghost69]

this guy thinks he is a stud right now. he is thinking he banged the crap out of you. literally. no joke.

 

but in all seriousness, caffeine enhances the bowels movements. something in the beans in coffee. used to happen to me when i drink it. that's probably what happened. nothing to do with what you ate. just the coffee.

[Tempcuriosity]

grymoire I am a bit confused by your post... Were you having anal sex? And you didn't even realize that you pooped while having sex? sorry.. but it's hard to imagine how some one can not know that they went number 2. you would have at least slightly farted...

 

On the other side... I don't think you have to worry about anything. This guy seems to be really nice and understanding. So don't get paranoid... But of course don't drink frap next time lol..[/quote

 

 

NO Not ANAL SEX!! I had his in mine just backwards instead of forwards, dogg style is the same way Accept Im not on top on on bottom..I think It

might of been a case of diareah in all honesty because it was liquidy and I

think that may be the reason why i didnt realize it.

 

He washed his sheets and is still using them, s o

i think he figured it out. Im sure he knows blood stains,

poo doesnt...GROSS im so Humiliated...O my goodness....

[grymoire]

NO Not ANAL SEX!! I had his in mine just backwards instead of forwards, dogg style is the same way Accept Im not on top on on bottom..I think It

might of been a case of diareah in all honesty because it was liquidy and I

think that may be the reason why i didnt realize it.

 

He washed his sheets and is still using them, s o

i think he figured it out. Im sure he knows blood stains,

poo doesnt...GROSS im so Humiliated...O my goodness....

 

oh yea... its an embarrassing situation... but its not really your mistake though.. so don't be so hard on yourself.

 

did you guys talk at all after that?

[JeckyllNHyde]

Well Temper,

Like some others said, it's embarissing but don't orry about it. Probably it will just make you feel more comfy around him after having gone thru that.

Usually it's not something which happens. I think while "letting yourself go with it" you probably squeezed your anal muscles or something subconsciously.

If it makes you feel any better: people letting out poop during sex has happened to various people during anal sex. People empty their bowels fully etc before it. So what happened to you isn't something TOTALLy out of the ordinary (pooping during sex).

[Tempcuriosity]

Yeeah, I think you are right, I tense my anal muscles, not sure why.

Umm..the other day I was getting taken care of by him and for some

reason, I was SOOO close to actually "cumming" because i never really

have had the exploding feeling, well it felt like if he stopped and took his

finger out that I would of been able to let loose...

 

havnt had a poo accident sense the first one. I havn't really Touched

any coffee either...I hate coffee now, unless i know im not going

to be having any sex ;lloll