Talking with new attractive co-workers.....automatic flirting?

[SadAsianMale]

So my work environment is co-ed. I talk to anyone who's friendly and nice to me, it doesn't matter about the gender. However I always find it ironic whenever I chat with any new female employee who's young and attractive it's automatically assumed I'm hitting on her. I especially get dirty looks from the older female co-workers. No one pays attention to me when I'm having a conversation with the new guy, just the new girl. Is this a natural feeling in your workplace?

[rocio]

Remember that you act differently when you're talking to a woman you find attractive. Whether you're trying to flirt or not, you're just not going to be the same person that you are when you're engaging with other men or women you're not attracted to.

[ghost69]

Remember that you act differently when you're talking to a woman you find attractive. Whether you're trying to flirt or not, you're just not going to be the same person that you are when you're engaging with other men or women you're not attracted to.

 

this is so true. your behavior can be different although you might not realize it. but do what you do.