alcide Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 My boyfriend break up with me last night after me telling him about the way he is treating me. I broght a jeep and my boyfriend sold it back and the man he sold it to never paid him back the money for my jeep. Now im going to court with the man, to try to get back my money. My boyfriend on the other hand is dealing with family situation, his loan to pay and he claims that his not making money cause every time he make money he has to spend it back on the machine he brought. Then he spends not too much time with me or take me out, nothing like that is just come sex, go next morning, call me during the day, nothing else, then he goes out with his friends, he said it to relax his mind. I always buy him clothes and gives him money and anything he ask me. I ask him why he wants to break up with me he told me its because he needs to check for his self and i complaine too much. It hurts to see after all he just gave up on me. I just turn my phone off because i am so hurt and im at work and just can't prevent the tears from running. I think i was used and abused. I know his gonna regret later. Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 wow, your bf sold YOUR car? and you didn't get the money? you need to sue your bf for that money!!!! wow, what a jerk. i think it's good you didn't marry him. why did he sell your car in the first place? Link to comment
alcide Posted January 18, 2008 Author Share Posted January 18, 2008 Because it was too slow and it wouldn't be fix. Wethrought it was the timing bell but it wasn't after servicing it. Link to comment
Daligal83 Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 Either way, that's your car, not his. He had no right to sell it. Not to be harsh, but it sounded like he was using you. Then once you started to stand up for yourself, he bailed cause he really didn't want to be in a relationship. You deserve better than that and will find it. I know it hurts now, but all you can do is learn from what went wrong so you don't date another guy like this in the future. Link to comment
alcide Posted January 18, 2008 Author Share Posted January 18, 2008 I am hurting i dont know what to do the situation is too much to handle. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 time will fix it. sounds like he wasn't too into the relationship if he didn't take you out at all and just came over and had sex. you should get over this quickly and realize this guy is a ****. Link to comment
alcide Posted January 18, 2008 Author Share Posted January 18, 2008 Should i turn on my phone last night after the break but he text to tell me good night and catch a kiss. I m hurting what should i do, please help me i need help more than ever. Its like im losing it. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 don't text him back. don't call him. it's over. put this guy out of your head. he's a jerk and now he is just playing with your emotions. Link to comment
alcide Posted January 18, 2008 Author Share Posted January 18, 2008 don't text him back. don't call him. it's over. put this guy out of your head. he's a jerk and now he is just playing with your emotions. Hey Ghost69 if he calls me or meet up with me on the way what should i say. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 Hey Ghost69 if he calls me or meet up with me on the way what should i say. why would you? he broke up with you. he needs to deal with it just as much as you. let this rubbish go. he's a jerk. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 oh and you know what? if he runs into you in person, act upbeat like you have somewhere to go and something to do. even if you don't. disregard anything he says and tell him you have to go. don't give him the time of day. he's trying to jack you around. that's not fair to your feelings or emotions. Link to comment
ryan123 Posted January 20, 2008 Share Posted January 20, 2008 Because it was too slow and it wouldn't be fix. Wethrought it was the timing bell but it wasn't after servicing it. I don't really have anything constructive to add about your situation because the most constructive thing you coulda done already happened. But a sure sign that your timing belt isn't gone is that your car is still running. Link to comment
alcide Posted January 21, 2008 Author Share Posted January 21, 2008 I don't really have anything constructive to add about your situation because the most constructive thing you coulda done already happened. But a sure sign that your timing belt isn't gone is that your car is still running. The Jeep is stil working just very slowly. Link to comment
alcide Posted January 21, 2008 Author Share Posted January 21, 2008 He has been coming over to my home whole weekend and keep calling my phone but i keep hiding him and letting my people say im out. This morning i turn on my phone and he calls 8am asking mme to meet up with him to talk, he suggested that he would come by my work place to see me i said no i won't be there, honestly right now i never drink alcohol before but for those days thats my only friend, 50% knock out one time. Causes my head to hurt so much. Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 good, i am glad you aren't taking his calls, but please do not lean on alcohol. alcohol is not your friend. go see your gfs, spend time with your sister, go to church, anything but drink too much. that doesn't help anything and is dangerous. as for the guy, send him an email saying, "the people i live with say you keep dropping by the house - STOP! you broke up with me, that's what you wanted, now it's time to leave me alone." if he keeps up doing this, then report him to the police. Link to comment
alcide Posted January 22, 2008 Author Share Posted January 22, 2008 Last night he begging me not to go, he can't stand for me to go and was upset because i turned off my phone. He said he feels real hurt. Every one says his a fool to let me go. Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 well, he broke up with you, so he got his wish!! Link to comment
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